To be truly honest, we are playing a bit loosely with the rules of how a wedding should be structured. Firstly, there's no wedding party: we preferred to reduce the amount of variable pieces in the picture and having to coordinate with even more people just increases the stress. Secondly, the "ceremony" is going to be a bit more straightforward, without the extra folks, it will cut down the time for everything as it unfolds into the "I do's". Thirdly, since this celebration is at a vineyard, we plan to incorporate into the reception. Samplings paired with appropriate foods will be the main focus as a fun little way to enjoy ourselves. If you like anything you taste, the vineyard would be happy to sell you a bottle, if you'd like! To give a broad summary, we want you all to come and celebrate our union in a casual manner, nothing too uptight or overdrawn. We're simple people and we enjoy ourselves best when we do not overcomplicate the process.
Yes, but please give a heads up if you need a plus one added to your invite. The number of people attending has been factored into the cost and layout of the entire event, so be respectful of this rule.
Definitely not! As a couple, we surely aren't sticking to "normal" wedding attire, opting to wear fancy, but personally pleasing outfits instead of dual tuxedos. We want our guests to be comfortable, but don't get too crazy with it! A simple button-up/slacks or dress will do, no one is expected to go all out.