FAQs
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Is there a dress code?
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Cocktail Attire
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Are you registered? Where?
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We have a cash registry on this site. We are so grateful for our home and all of its furnishings. What we would love is help paying for our honeymoon! You can also buy some merch if you want to support us and look great doing so.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Our venue is in the heart of La Jolla. Street parking is *very* limited. The venue has a small parking lot. If you are staying at The La Jolla Cove Hotel, La Valencia, or the Inn by the Sea, you are within a short walking distance of the venue. If you are at another hotel or if you are local, please consider Uber or Lyft. The reception bar is open for 5 hours, who wants to drive anyway?!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please arrive to the La Jolla Cove Hotel Rooftop by 3:30. The ceremony starts promptly at 4:00.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by August 1st, 2026.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Absolutely!
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If I’m traveling in, should I rent a car?
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Up to you, parking is hard to find in La Jolla and we recommend you Lyft/uber to and from the venue. So up to you if you want a car for the remainder of the weekend. 🚙
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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
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The wedding is outdoors. There is some covered space and some indoor space, but the venue is mostly outdoors. We don’t anticipate rain, but if you are afraid of rain bring a coat.
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What will the weather be like?
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It should be sunny and moderately warm, probably low 70s Fahrenheit. It can get cold at night so bring a jacket if you are a cold person. Not like personality but if you get cold easily. 🥶
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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?
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We are planning on having a welcome event at 8:00 pm on Friday, October 9th. In addition, after the wedding reception, we are planning to walk to local bars in La Jolla. Last, there will be a pool party on Sunday, October 11th.
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What are all the different events?
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Friday night - at the La Jolla Cove Hotel Pool area, we will be hosting a welcome party from 8-10pm. This is a casual gathering to enjoy night-before beverages, eat some dessert, and mingle. Dinner will not be provided, only alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks and desserts. The bar will be open thanks to Sharon (and Bob) Dahm. Saturday - our wedding ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will occur on the rooftop of the La Jolla Cove Hotel. Please arrive by 3:30pm for the 4pm ceremony. All events this evening will be on the rooftop. Dinner, drinks, dancing, dessert, Dahm, Dalton. All the Ds will be there. The bar is open thanks to Jennifer Ball and Mike Varney! Sunday - from 11-2, we will be at the pool area hosting a final gathering - a pool party! Light lunch and non-alcoholic drinks will be provided. No booze from us, sorry - we hope we will have tired you out by now.