We truly put so much thought into this. We adore all of the children in our lives, but with such a large family (and many friends with children), we had to make some tough choices to make our guest list manageable. While there will be few little ones celebrating with us, our wedding will be mostly an adults-only affair. We hope you can enjoy the evening kid free as a date night, knowing your littles are well cared for at home- and we can't wait to celebrate with you!
Please RSVP by April 30th so we can make sure every guest has a seat- we will not be able to accommodate anyone who has not RSVP'd.
Our dress code is semi formal. Ladies- think cocktail dresses, jumpsuits, or dressy skirts. Gentlemen-think dress shirts with slacks. Suits, ties and jackets are welcome but not required! Most importantly, wear something you feel comfortable dancing in!
We wish we could invite everyone to bring a guest, but to keep our celebration as intimate as possible and within our venue's capacity, plus ones are only included if specified on your invitation. We really appreciate your understanding!
We will not be providing transportation, but Ubers and Lyfts are readily available in the Rochester area. The venue is about a 15-minute drive from our hotel block. We kindly ask everyone to plan ahead and get home safely- please do not drink and drive!!
The wedding ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors. However, if the weather does not permit these activities will be moved into the barn where everyone can stay dry! The reception will take place in the barn.
We recommend arriving at least 15-20 minutes early so you have time to find your seat and get settled. There ceremony begins promptly at 3:30.
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift! If you'd like to help us celebrate in another way, contributions toward our honeymoon or future home would mean so much.