FAQs
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Where do I RSVP?
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Keep an eye out for official invitations this Spring! Once yours arrives, you’ll be able to RSVP right here on the website with just a few clicks.
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Where is the Happily Ever After celebration?
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In Manhattan, Illinois at a beautiful family-friendly home where we can relax, laugh, and blend our families. The address will be shared in your invitation and on the RSVP page.
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Is this a kid-friendly celebration?
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Absolutely. Celebrating as a family with Charlie’s children — Annie, Jack, Teddy, and Finn — is at the heart of this day. They’ve been a joyful part of our journey, and we want this celebration to reflect the love, laughter, and togetherness that comes with blending our families. There will be plenty for the kids to enjoy, and plenty of moments for all of us to share.
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Where can I book my hotel room?
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We’ve reserved a block of rooms at Candlewood Suites Joliet Southwest for our guests on July 18. You can book online using our group link available in the 'Travel' section of this website or call 779-206-2915 and reference the Connor Wedding or group code CNR. The hotel shares a front desk with Holiday Inn, so please be sure to mention Candlewood Suites when booking.
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What time should we arrive?
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Please plan to arrive between 2pm-3pm so you don’t miss the fun! We’ll have food, drinks, and games going throughout the evening.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We can’t wait to celebrate together! Since we’re hosting at a private residence with limited capacity, our guest list is set. Your RSVP will show everyone we’ve planned for, including any plus one.
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What is the dress code?
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Relaxed, but still polished. Sundresses, jumpsuits, nice tops, khakis, chinos, button-downs. Comfortable shoes welcome. Kids can wear whatever lets them bounce and play. There is a pool and hot tub at the venue, so please also feel free to bring swimsuits!
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What is on the menu?
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We’re excited to have food trucks rotating throughout the celebration so everyone can enjoy great food at their own pace. In the afternoon, we’ll have classic American favorites, and in the evening, wood-fired pizzas made fresh on site—with vegetarian options available throughout the day. There will also be plenty of shared snacks, appetizers, and sweet treats for everyone to enjoy.
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Will there be alcohol?
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Yes. We’ll have a fully stocked, open bar for the adults to enjoy throughout the celebration. Kids will have their own fun options too — sodas, juices, and playful mocktails so they can feel part of the cheers. Beer, wine, and spirits will be available, with spirit service beginning around 5pm.
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Will there be activities for both kids and adults to enjoy?
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Absolutely. We’ve thoughtfully created spaces and experiences for every age to feel at home and have fun. Kids can dive into the bouncy house room, swimming pool, mini golf course, video game projector, foosball, and plenty of games that invite laughter and play. Adults can enjoy the bar, pool table, poker table, ping pong, hot tub, and a cozy bonfire as the night winds down. Our hope is that everyone finds their own moments of joy, connection, and celebration throughout the day.
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Should we bring swimsuits?
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Yes! With a pool and hot tub at the house, we want the kids (and adults!) to feel free to jump in, splash, unwind, and embrace the fun of the day. It’s all part of creating memories together.
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Is the event indoors, outdoors, or both?
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Both. We’ll be using the whole property — the cozy indoor spaces, the open backyard, the pool, the hot tub, and the bonfire area. We want the day to feel relaxed, warm, and full of places to gather and make memories.
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Should I bring anything?
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Just yourself. Truly. If you plan to swim or sit by the fire later in the evening, feel free to bring a swimsuit or a light layer, but your presence is the only thing we really hope for.