Clinton & Heidi
Wedding Party
Christelle Rabie
Maid of Honor
Christelle and I met in September 2021 when I started working at a PSG adviser office—fresh from our head office and completely unaware that I was about to meet my soul friend in the form of our office manager. From day one, we just clicked. I still don’t know what magic she worked that day, but there I was: oversharing, crying, and completely at ease with someone I’d just met. And she? Calm, warm, trustworthy—exactly the kind of person who becomes a friend for life. Christelle is funny in her own wonderfully unique way, and yes, she talks a lot (she’ll admit it). But every word comes from a place of care and compassion. She’s my sounding board, my secret-keeper, and the person I trust with both my work drama and my way-too-personal stories that honestly deserved a bit of side-eye—but she never once judged me. She somehow manages to be the most professional office manager by day, and my hilarious, loyal, always-there-for-me best friend by night. She makes me feel seen and, when I get a word in, heard. 💛 There’s no one else I’d rather have standing beside me as Maid of Honour—except maybe for someone who talks a little less (just kidding… mostly 😉).
Colleen Strauss
Bridesmaid
Colleen and I met in September 2021 when I joined the PSG adviser office—and I quickly discovered she’s the kind of colleague you hope to be seated next to in life. Colleen has a laugh so contagious it should come with a warning, especially when she’s in one of her giggle fits (if you know, you know). She’s funny, yes, but she’s also my straight-and-narrow. When I spiral off course or dive into a procrastination pit, Colleen is there—humbling me in the gentlest, most loving way. She sees right through the excuses, gently calls me out when I need it, and somehow always manages to help me make sense of emotional chaos I can't even explain myself. Colleen is insightful, grounded, and wildly caring. She’s the one I turn to before I make big life decisions—because she has this way of seeing things from angles I miss. She's my reality check, my sounding board, and my “overreaction meter” (she keeps it calibrated too well sometimes). I still remember when I was unsure about continuing my studies. Colleen didn’t give me a motivational speech—she just subtly made it clear that if I didn’t pull myself together, things wouldn’t magically fall into place. And she was right. She always is. Having Colleen as a bridesmaid is like having a secret superpower on your side. She’s steady, fierce, thoughtful—and very good at gently nudging me back to being my best self.
Melissa Hofmann
Bridesmaid
Melissa, my future sister-in-law, and I first met in November last year at a family dinner in Canal Walk. From the moment we started chatting, it felt natural—like we’d known each other for years. She was warm, welcoming, and genuinely interested in getting to know me, which instantly put me at ease. I walked away from that night feeling so grateful to have met her and excited about the idea of becoming part of the family. She’s super fun to be around, always up for a laugh, and—dangerously—my Temu kryptonite. Somehow, she can sniff out a gorgeous dress through a phone screen (and, yes, she’s usually right). She’s also incredibly creative, with a talent for photography and a knack for doing her own nails so perfectly they could be in a magazine. One of my favourite moments with Melissa was when she took our engagement photos. It meant the world to have my future sister-in-law behind the camera, capturing the most special memories with such love and skill. It was more than just a photoshoot—it was a gift I’ll treasure forever. Melissa is patient, understanding, and full of warmth. As a future sister-in-law, she’s gone out of her way to get to know me, include me, and make me feel at home. I’m so excited to officially join the family—and even more excited for all the laughter, fun, and Temu “damage” we’ll get up to together.
Justin Doherty
Groomsman
My brother Justin has always been the protector of our family. Over the years, I’ve watched him grow into that role with a strength that’s not just physical, but rooted in resilience and character. On behalf of the family, I can honestly say we’re incredibly proud of the man he’s become. Growing up with him was a mix of chaos and fun, video games, rollerblading, martial arts, and endless pranks. We had an unspoken mission to outdo each other, though I usually came off second best. Our poor parents had to endure a house filled with noise, broken things, and plenty of stitches. Some of my favourite memories are from trips to Knysna, pumping prawns in the lagoon with our dad or the time in Sedgefield when I attempted a double backflip on a trampoline and got my head wedged between the springs. Justin, however, was busy impressing everyone with his magic tricks, performing at birthdays or on stage. Later, at 28, I had the privilege of living with him in the UK for two years. Sharing a home as adults allowed us to add new layers to our childhood bond, and it made our relationship even stronger. Justin worked hard, studied relentlessly, and earned his place as a Chartered Accountant. Today, he’s the CEO of an Insurance Company in Bermuda. But beyond the career and achievements, what matters most is his kindness. He’s always been there for us, especially after we lost our dad. To me, Justin isn’t just my brother, he’s my lifelong teammate, sparring partner, and protector.
Mark Simpson
Groomsman
Mark and I go way back to the early days of Gandalfs, a local dive bar where so many of us spent our nights. We quickly bonded over our shared love for skateboarding and extreme sports, and over the years, Mark has become more like a brother than a friend, always there for me through thick and thin. About 12 years ago, when I returned from Israel, we took a leap and started a company together, The Agency, which has grown into something we’re both proud of. Just like in business, in life too, Mark has always been by my side. We’ve been two peas in a pod ever since. Mark is a true water child with a passion for surfing. He’s tried to pass that love on to me, but let’s just say it hasn’t gone smoothly. My first attempt was at Kommetjie, in freezing water, with an undersized wetsuit full of holes. The second attempt was at Jeffreys Bay, where thick fog rolled in as soon as we hit the water, and I ended up being pushed toward the rocks. I walked out looking like a drowned rat, with my brand new wetsuit now full of holes! Maybe surfing just isn’t my destiny, but those memories with Mark will last forever. When I think of Mark, I think of someone who lives with passion, always ready for the next adventure. I’m grateful for the countless memories we’ve made, and even more grateful to have him standing by my side on this day.
Nicklas Voutila
Groomsman
Nicklas and I first crossed paths over 20 years ago on a spiritual development website, where we bonded with a group of like-minded souls over conversations about meditation and consciousness. From the very beginning, I felt a strong connection with him. After nearly a decade of online friendship, I finally traveled to Finland to meet him in person and that only deepened the bond we shared. What makes Nicklas so special is his gentle heart, his unwavering kindness, and his playful, curious nature. He’s a true tech and gaming enthusiast, some might even say a bit of a geek, but that’s exactly what makes him who he is. Over the years, I’ve loved watching him grow into the incredible man he is today. One of my fondest memories was when Nick came to South Africa for the very first time. He was amazed by even the smallest things. At a tidal pool, he stared wide-eyed at the walls and asked, “What are these things?” When I told him they were mussels you could eat, he was absolutely fascinated. The very next day, we went snorkeling. Nick spotted a jellyfish and immediately shouted “Alien! Alien!” before swimming out of the water as fast as he could. It was such a perfect reflection of his child-like wonder and curiosity about the world. Nick has one of the biggest hearts of anyone I know. His kindness knows no bounds, and I am truly grateful for the friendship we share. Having him stand by my side means the world to me.
