FRIs

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"Can we take photos?"

Answer

Yes! But NOT during the ceremony. We will be asking that phone and cameras are off/silenced and put away during the ceremony. Once the ceremony is over, please take as many photos/videos during the cocktail hour and reception as you can!

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"What should we wear?"

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We suggest attire in the range of dressy casual to cocktail to semi-formal. Most importantly, we want everyone to be comfortable and have fun! *It is requested (very strongly encouraged) that any active-duty or retired military members attend in their dress uniform.* The forecast is looking like it will be on the cooler side for the day of festivities. Currently, it is predicted that it will be in the upper 50s during the day and low 40s into the night. *If anyone is planning on buying a dress or accessories from David's Bridal, please use the Bride's cell phone number when asked for a 'Diamond Loyalty' number. This will give you their available discounts!

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"Any color restrictions?"

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Nope! Wear any color you would like! If you need help narrowing down the options, rich autumn colors and deep jewel tones would be perfect. Not only do they look great on everyone, but will fit our theme and the time of year.

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"Is this a costume party?"

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No. We would not recommend Halloween/trick-or-treat style/full costumes. Please refer to 'What should we wear?' and "Any color restrictions?' above. BUT, we would not be opposed to guests adding an little bit of flair to your outfit! Like a small accessory, an ounce magic, or something hinting at whimsy. Examples: kilt, elf ears, flower crown, corset, bracers If you have questions, please don't hesitate to ask!

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"Will we be inside or outside?"

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The current plan is to have the ceremony outside. There will also be the opportunity to spend time outside during the cocktail hour and reception, which will be hosted mainly inside. Obviously, this will be weather dependent and we would suggest dressing in layers.

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"What if we have food allergies or restrictions?"

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We have tried to make sure that gluten-free and vegetarian options are readily available. We will do our best to make sure these items are labelled. We also plan to have Lactaid available for those of us with dairy sensitivities.

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"Will there be parking available for the ceremony/reception?"

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There is ample parking on site at the venue. The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception are all taking place at the same location.

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"Will there be transportation between the hotel and the venue?"

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We will have a shuttle available to make trips from the Brockport Hampton Inn to the venue, and back. Before the ceremony, 2 trips will be made at 4pm and 4:30pm. Towards the end of the reception, 3 trips will be made at 10pm, 10:30pm, and 11pm. Please note that there will be no shuttle runs during cocktail hour. Please be aware that the bus has a 40 person capacity. Before the ceremony, if you (or part of your party) is ready early, please take the earlier shuttle and have the remainder of your party take the later shuttle.

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"Is smoking allowed?"

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No. Smoking of any kind will not be allowed in or around the venue. *Please note there will be a cleaning fee charged if any smoking occurs.

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"Any other venue restrictions?"

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Why yes, thank you for asking! No glitter of any kind, anywhere, for any reason. *Glitter spreads like a disease and will also result in a cleaning fee.

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"What does your hashtag mean?"

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It is a play on the classic 'Until Death Do Us Part' promise. GRAT is a celebrity couple style combination of our names/nicknames (GReg and kAT). So, that gives you #TilDeathDoUsGRAT