What started as a simple swipe turned into something that felt meant to be. From the beginning, there was an ease between us - like finding something familiar in someone new. Just six months later, we took a leap and built a life together. At 20 and 22, with our two cats, Olive and Finn, we created a home filled with comfort, love, and a sense of belonging. Through every season, we have grown side by side - supporting each other through change, new beginnings, and the goals we’ve worked toward together. Taking the chance to leave a job, go back to school, and build something from the ground up wasn’t just one person’s journey - it was something we faced together. We’ve traveled to places like Washington, Arizona, and Florida, creating memories that reflect the life we’ve built as a team. No matter where we go, it has always been about who we’re with, not where we are. Our story is built on friendship, support, and the quiet moments that matter most. Together, we’ve created a life filled with love, stability, and a sense of home in each other.
Ciara was visiting the Buffalo area with friends when she and Cody matched on Tinder. What started as a simple swipe quickly turned into something more, and after a few months, they decided to finally meet in person. They chose a public place - Losson Park in Depew, NY - and spent the evening walking and talking as the sun slowly set. Along the way, Ciara’s friend realized their car keys had fallen out of their pocket somewhere in the park. With no way to get home and park security insisting they return the next day, what could have been a stressful situation turned into something unforgettable. Without hesitation, Cody offered to drive them an hour back home. He even stopped to get drinks and snacks for the ride, making sure they got home safely. What started as a simple first meeting quickly became something neither of them would ever forget - and the beginning of everything.
After reconnecting during a time when the world had slowed down, Ciara knew she wanted to do something special for Cody. She planned a date at Losson Park - the same place they had met for the first time two years earlier. Nervous but excited, she even asked Cody’s best friend beforehand if it would be weird to ask him to be her boyfriend. About halfway through their walk along the trail, she finally asked… and of course, he said yes. What started as a simple question turned into the beginning of something real, something lasting, and something they would continue to build together.
For their five-year anniversary, Ciara and Cody planned a week-long trip along the Pacific Coast in Washington State. They explored so many beautiful places, but there was one that stood out - one that felt just right. After a long drive to Cape Flattery, the northwesternmost point of the continental U.S., they set out on a hike along the breathtaking coastline. Surrounded by cliffs, water, and views that felt almost unreal, the moment felt perfectly still. It was there, with the ocean stretching out in front of them, that Cody got down on one knee and asked Ciara to spend forever with him. In a place they’ll always be able to return to, overlooking the water, they said yes to a lifetime together.
It wasn’t just one moment - it was everything in between. The way life felt easier together, the home they built, and the way they continued choosing each other through every chapter. Somewhere along the way, it became clear - this was forever.
Who said “I love you” first: Ciara Who is more stubborn: Ciara Who takes longer to get ready: Ciara Who the cats love more: Both of Us Who is more likely to cry at the wedding: Both of Us Favorite place together: Rusty Taco in Arizona Who is always right: Both of us Who is more likely to lose something: Cody Favorite date night: Margaritas Who is the better driver: Cody
We are so grateful to have you here with us. Each person invited has played a part in our lives and in our story, and it means so much to be able to celebrate this moment surrounded by the people we love most. Thank you for your love, your support, and for being here to share this day with us. We truly couldn’t imagine it without you. - Cody & Ciara -