Masquerade! Masquerade masks will be provided. If you have a mask that you love you are more than welcomed to bring and wear it.
Formal Attire / Black-Tie Optional Ladies - Mid to floor length gowns, Knee-length cocktail dress, Dressy pantsuit Men -Dark Suits, Tuxedos (Optional) *Please avoid wearing the following colors: white, cream, red or champagne
Although we love the kiddos, this event is 21+. We want you to be able to let loose and enjoy the night!
We wish we could invite everyone! To comply with the venue's capacity limit and stay within budget we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you are unsure if you have a plus one please feel free to e-mail us!
Yes! Please check out the "Travel" tab above. Please note there are limited room blocks so please book quickly so we can add more rooms in before the busy season gets closer. There are plenty of alternative hotels outside of the room blocks available to reserve as well, especially within Salem that are walking distance to the Hawthorne. Another great option is to look into VRBO and Airbnb.
We are only offering online RSVP. If you are having trouble using the online platform, please contact us and we can walk you through it.
August 12, 2023
If we do not get an RSVP back by August 12, 2023 it will be marked as a "No". We will miss you celebrating with us, however we have to provide total guest counts to the venue in the timely manner they have given to us and cannot accept late RSVP's due to this. We hope you understand!
The DJ will not be accepting any song requests night of the wedding, but there is a section in your RSVP that allows for one song recommendation!
Yes! Please see the registry tab. Thank you in advanced for your generosity!
There is no obligation to bring a gift, but if you wish to there will be a table for your convenience.
Yes! Unfortunately, due to limited space we are unable to invite everyone on our guest list. Specific family and friends have received a separate invitation asking to join us and participate in the tea ceremony. If you are unsure if you are invited, please contact us. Thank you for understanding!
The ceremony will start promptly at 5:00pm. Please arrive at 4:30pm to ensure we can start on time. If you do find yourself running late we ask that you wait outside until the ceremony is over. If you are unfamiliar with the streets of Salem, we suggest you give yourself ample time to navigate the roads.
We're respectfully asking that everyone consider leaving all cameras and cell phones off during the ceremony. We have hired an amazing photographer and videographer to capture this special moment. Of course we will be happy to share our wedding photos with you afterward!
Yes, we encourage guests to post pictures on to their social media pages. Our only request is that you tag each photo with our wedding hashtag #GettingBoujeeWithTheBuccis so we can keep track of all of your pictures!
The Church is a 3 minute walk from the Hawthorne Hotel! If you are staying further away and/or planning on driving, the Church has a small parking lot in addition to the Hawthorne Hotel parking lot you can use.
Yes! There are two complimentary parking lots behind the hotel. If that does become full there are many other alternative options as well. See below for more details.
There are plenty of metered parking and garages throughout Salem. The meters accept coins, card or you can download the Passport Parking App. Check out this helpful parking guide for Salem: https://www.salem.org/travel-info/parking/
If you find yourself with some extra time to spare in between wedding events please check out the "Things to Do" tab. We've compiled a list of great attractions and restaurants we love in Salem. You are also more than welcomed to grab a drink at the Tavern bar in the hotel.
Cocktail Hour: Hors d'oeuvres Reception: Plated Dinner Farewell Brunch: Buffet
Tea Ceremony - No bar provided. However, if you would like an alcoholic beverage you can go to the Tavern right across the hall and grab a drink. Cocktail & Reception - Open Bar all the way! Farewell Brunch - Cash Bar only
There will be a section in your RSVP to submit any dietary restrictions/allergies you have!
September in New England is one of our favorites! Fall has officially started so the weather will be cooler at night (average 50 degrees), but still fairly warm during the day time (average 70 degrees). September is also hurricane season so there is always a possibility of rain. However, all of our venues are indoors!