FAQs

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How do I RSVP?

Answer

Click on the RSVP tab at the top of this page. Then you will be asked to enter your name and select your party. After you select your party, you will be able to RSVP for everyone in your party and indicate which events each individual will be attending and their dietary restrictions. Please help us keep track of you and your party's needs and RSVP through this website!

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What does an anything goes casual dress code mean?

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Acceptable: blazers, slacks, cocktail dresses, tuxedos, ballgowns, polo shirts, jeans, cozy fall sweaters, yoga pants, white sundresses, unicorn onsies, and Starfleet uniforms. Unacceptable: fig leaves, loincloths, shirtless, or shoeless. Just avoid anything that could get you kicked out of a mid-range sit-down California restaurant.

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Can I bring a plus one/ can my child come?

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Since we have limited space, we are limiting plus ones and kids, based on how far people are coming and other specific circumstances. Your invitation will say if they are invited. That said, if you would really like us to extend an invitation to a plus one or a child, please reach out to us as soon as possible.

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Can I bring a potluck item?

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If you're local and want to bring something, it would be greatly appreciated, but please check in with us first so we can plan for space and serving ware.

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Am I invited to…?

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The website is set up so that guests can only see events they are invited to. If you can see the event and you are asked to RSVP to it you are invited. We spent a lot of time on who we invited to what. So while we understand if you can’t make it, you can assume that if you can RSVP to it, it is because we want you, specifically, to be there.