We love your kids - we really do! But we want this wedding to be your night off. If you are having trouble finding a babysitter, give us a ring and we can help you out!
Cocktail, please. But we want you to be comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.
If you invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not, we would prefer it just be you.