FAQs

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Are kids allowed?

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No, this is a child free wedding and trip

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When should I arrive in Tokyo?

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That depends on you! If you are wanting to attend every event, you would need to purchase a departure ticket on March 30th to arrive by the 31st. Since Japan's time zone is 13 hours ahead of us, you will arrive around 6PM the next day from the departure date.

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How do I get from the airport to the city?

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Tokyo has two airports: Haneda (HND) and Narita (NRT). Both provide easy access to the city, though Haneda is closer. Transportation options include taxis/Uber, trains, and shuttle buses. Shuttle buses are recommended because they take you directly to central areas and are typically affordable, with tickets usually costing around $20–$40 per person each way.

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How do I pay for the Tokyo Metro?

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Tokyo’s metro system uses reloadable transit cards. The two main options are Suica and PASMO, which work the same for riders. They can be purchased at the airport, at many metro stations, or added directly to your Apple Wallet. To add it on your apple wallet, go to the wallet app, click the plus button at the top, click transit card, scroll down to Japan and select either Suica or Pasmo, then follow the instructions. After adding money (yen) to the card, simply tap it when entering and leaving the station. For Apple users, double tap your lock button to open Apple Pay, then select the transit card you decided to add to your wallet.

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How do I ride the Tokyo Metro?

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Riding the Tokyo Metro is straightforward when using Apple Maps or Google Maps. Each metro line has a color, and every station has a number to make navigation easier. Maps will guide you to the nearest station, where you’ll scan your transit card at the turnstiles. It will then tell you exactly which stations to travel between—for example, from station E33 platform 1 to station E20. After entering the station, simply follow the signs for the correct line and direction. Maps will also show the cost of each ride in advance so you can make sure your card has enough balance. Station names, numbers, and exits are clearly marked throughout the system.

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Do I have to attend every event on the schedule?

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No. Guests are welcome to spend their time in Tokyo however they like. The scheduled events are simply opportunities to gather, explore, and celebrate together throughout the trip. The only required event is the wedding ceremony.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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No. A professional photographer will be capturing the ceremony, so guests are asked to keep phones and cameras away during this time. This allows everyone to stay present and enjoy the moment without distractions.

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How is the language barrier?

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It depends on where you are. Many restaurants, hotels, museums, and larger stores in Tokyo have staff who speak some English. In places like metro stations, small local shops, or areas outside the city, English may be less common, but signage and translation apps usually make getting around manageable.

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What Should I Expect on the Wedding Day?

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Guests are free to spend the day however they like before the ceremony. A car will pick everyone up from their hotel or AirB&B and take them to the venue for the ceremony, dinner, and reception, all of which will take place at the same location. After the reception, the celebration will continue with bar hopping in either Shibuya or Shinjuku until around 11:30 PM, before the Tokyo Metro closes at midnight. Chaz and Alex will be spending the day privately leading up to the ceremony and will depart for their honeymoon the day after the wedding.

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What should I wear to the wedding?

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Since we’re a non-traditional couple, our dress code is Formal nightlife. Please check out our dress code page for inspiration and outfit ideas. We kindly ask that men do not wear suits, as we want to reserve that look for ourselves on our wedding day. Instead, we encourage everyone to get creative, think outside the box, and have fun expressing their personal style. This is not your typical wedding — bold, stylish, elevated, and unique outfits are absolutely encouraged!

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Will the welcome dinner be paid for?

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Yes! We will be paying for everyone to order an appetizer/sushi and an entree

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What will be paid for by the couple on the schedule?

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As of now, the only thing we will be paying for is the welcome dinner and the food at the wedding. Everything else on our schedule will be your responsibility to pay for should you decide to attend that event. Cost will be announced after RSVP has closed so we can inquire about group rates.

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Do people in Japan really judge you for tattoos?

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No, depending on where you are. The three times we have gone to Japan my (Chaz) tattoo's have never been an issue even when wearing shorts and a t-shirt. I have been allowed in temples, restaurants, hotels, and onsens without an issue. No one was staring at us or giving us a hard time from my tattoos.