FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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The grooms kindly request you arrive in red carpet fashion. Met Gala. It’s giving ball gowns. It’s giving floral suits. Glamorina darling. Feel your fashion. Serving charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent. Floor length gowns (still danceable tho pls). Black tie. DIY Thrift store vintage glam. From rags to riches eleganza. A Bob Mackie Cher dress. Haus of Abundance. Category is: Upstage the Bride. Hermonie at the Yule ball. Diamonds are a girls best friend. #eleganza. Formal fierceness. No limits, no rules, live… work… POSE. Pearls. Clutches made of 24k gold. This is your chance to go full glam and not worry that you're over dressed darlings. HOWEVER! The expectation is that your gown and/or suit is danceable, as this dance floor is about to get lit on FIRE honeys and attendance is not optional If you’re struggling a black suit or black dress or combination of the two is fabulous. If you’re still struggling to understand the vision pls see the dress code tab above for inspiration.

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Are kids welcome?

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No, this is an 18+ event - get a sitter and have a fun night out!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Literally so much parking there's like three parking lots

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Yes! We will have a 12-person minibus running between the hotel and the venue. The shuttle will begin pickups from the hotel at 3:30 PM to take guests to the ceremony. At the end of the night, starting at 10:00 PM, the shuttle will make return trips back to the hotel so everyone can celebrate worry-free. Downtown Rochester is also very Uber friendly if you would prefer.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Between 3:40-4PM is perfect.

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Can I bring a date?

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Unless you were offered a plus one on your invitation, there will not be a seat for your date!