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June 18, 2022
Grand Rapids, MI
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Mary & Charlie

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When should I RSVP by?

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ASAP!! By 5/17/2022 if you want a discounted hotel rate. By 6/1/2022 at the LATEST.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We have NO registry!

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Can I bring a date?

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All guests have the option of bringing at least one plus one. Please reach out to the couple if you have any questions regarding an extra plus one.

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Are kids welcome?

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Children are welcome and have been included in the total guest count! Please let us know if you wish to seat your children at the designated “Kid’s Table.”

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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EARLY AND ON TIME! We have a wedding planner who has planned a TIGHT schedule. Please do NOT run on, “Asian Time,” unless you are okay with missing any significant parts of the big day.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Please see the “Travel,” page for hotel recommendations and blocks.

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Is there a dress code?

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SEMI-FORMAL or COCKTAIL ATTIRE. No jeans, sneakers, T-shirts, athletic wear, etc.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please let us know ASAP if you have a food allergy! We have vegan options and are assuring that our menus are free of nuts.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is limited parking for the ceremony, but street parking is available. The reception should have plenty of parking for all.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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We are currently working on arranging a Lyft or Uber event. We are also working with our planner to discuss any shuttle options.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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There are some private events for the family and bridal party. Feel free to make friends with other guests and make your own plans! All guests will have FREE ACCESS to Frederik Meier Gardens on THE DAY OF THE WEDDING if you do not wish to attend the church ceremony.

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