We are asking guests to wear cocktail attire! Wear something that will keep you comfortable, warm, and ready to bust a move.
Follow up question - are they well behaved? Just kidding - if you got 'em, bring them. But let us know if your kids will be attending and their ages so we can accommodate them. Also note, there will be cigar smoke present and at least one Britney Spears song played.
We're going to go with "to love and be loved," but if you have a better answer please stop and chat with the groom. He loves a philosophical convo.