Maid of Honor
Tracy is my very first friend. Although I am only child, I never felt lonely or bored because Tracy was always in my life. We played together and we got in trouble together. We were always a unit and I no fear in whatever adventures we did, since I had Tracy to go through it with me. Although we are older, we still like to horse around and goof off together, but our friendship has taken deeper roots. Tracy never fails to tell me that she is there for me and always had solid advice when I need it. She is not just a friend or a cousin, she is truly a sister, and I am so happy that she will be standing with me on my wedding day.
Maid of Honor
Growing up, Tracy and I would tease Sally and play pranks on her. As we've grown up, now it's Sally and I that seem to tease Tracy more. Sally through the years as been a little sister, a roommate, a confidante, and now, always a call away. Despite our 5 year difference, Sally is very mature and wise. She never fails to hear me out, and understands what I am trying to say despite all of my emotions getting in the way. I know I can always call her for advice, or to hear a funny story. Like Tracy, Sally is my little sister, and I'm so happy that she will be by my side on my special day!
Bridesmaid
Kristin and I met during our first year at Andrews University where we became fast friends. Whether it was making lip sync videos in the middle of the night, or pulling an all-nighter for a Western Heritage test, I knew that we would be together. Since then, so many things have happened to us. From traveling to all parts of the world, medical school, and all other kinds of issues, to say that Kristin has been by my side feels like an understatement. She has many times been the reason why I was able to believe that I could accomplish things despite my insecurities. I would not be the person that I am without her, and I am so happy she will, again, be by my side for this new adventure.
Bridesmaid
Grace and I first met in 2009 at International KAYAMM, then 4 years later were reunited in Loma Linda. Grace is one of my favorite people because I know that when I'm with her, we're going to have a fun time. Often, I would invite her to hang out with me, only to trap her as the third-wheel with me and Isaac. Selfishly, I just wanted to spend time with two of my favorite people together. But not only is Grace a joy to be around, but our time is also meaningful as well. Grace is not a friend that reacts to your troubles and gives advice, instead she feels your struggle with you, and tries to help you carry your burdens. I'm so excited that my wedding is an excuse for us to see each other again and to be reunited! :D
Bridesmaid
Iris is the reason that Isaac and I started dating. During my second year of grad school, I roomed with Iris, who I did not know previously. She was very good friends with Isaac, so would invite him over to chill; the rest is history. Throughout the years, Iris has not only been a roommate and a wingman, but a very dear friend. Iris is the most thoughtful, kind, and well-meaning person I know. She would often make me dinner during test week, or patiently listen to my grandiose, petty problems, and in return, give me patience and love. Isaac and I both joked that we wanted Iris as part of our own wedding party, and we are so thrilled she will be standing with us on our big day!
Bridesmaid
Esther and I became friends in medical school, where through the trials and tribulations, our, now, unbreakable friendship, was forged. Through the long, arduous hours of study, I could always count on Esther to help me whenever I needed trouble or provide a laugh whenever I was feeling down. Throughout our second year, she would always bring me an extra serving of rice so I could eat her lunch with her, or give me something I needed that I had mentioned in passing. Esther is so thoughtful, and is one of the kindest, and most hard working people I know. I would definitely not have passed medical school without her, and I am so happy that she will be with me on my wedding day!
Bridesmaid
Arah and I first met during our time at Andrews University. At Andrews, she was one of the sweetest girls and would always let me barge into her room and bother her while she was studying. I consider my time at Andrews to be my most transformative because of the people that I have met there, and Arah is definitely one of those people. The most important thing Arah has taught me is that you cannot be free if you are not vulnerable. From late night talks, to long distance ones, Arah has shown me over and over again that vulnerability can be matched with support. It is this support that makes me cherish my friendship with her so much. And it is her support and presence that I am so honored to have with me on my big day!
Bridesmaid
Eunbi and I met many years ago when we were dorky girls in elementary school. Eunbi was always very delicate and put together, while I would wear converses with my stained dresses. Since those times, Eunbi and I have been through many things--from moving to Oklahoma, to undergrad, to various losses and gains. Throughout those times, Eunbi has never failed to show me that she is always on my side. Like with any childhood friendship, it is fun to see how life shapes people. As we have both gone through life, its funny how we are so different from those two girls taking selfies in the bathroom, but heart-warming that despite our changes, we are able to keep our strong friendship. And for this next big change, I am happy that I would have her by my side as well.
Best Man
I've been through more stressful situations with Young than I can count. From moving to the other side of the country, school, board exams, work, and everything in between, chances are Young was there going through the same ordeal with me. Of course we have had plenty of good memories as well, but it's through hardships we truly earned each other's trust. Young has been next to me through some of my toughest days and I'm glad he'll have a front row seat to one of my happiest. Oh and thanks for nearly freezing to death near the pool trying to buy me more time to talk with Esther before we had started dating. Don't think I ever thanked you for putting yourself through that for me, I didn't forget bud.
Groomsman
A typical conversation with Steven goes a bit like this. I'll meet up with Steven, and no matter how long it's been since we've last seen each other he'll greet me with a flat "What's up" and a wave. I'll then insist on some sort of handshake or a hug depending on how long it's been since I've seen him. Steven doesn't seem to care either way. I think if it were up to him he would be happy with just the wave. We'll sit down, talk about sports, news, I'll bring up girls, Steven will change the topic back to sports, and all throughout he'll drop little nuggets of random facts that I don't bother to check. This is how it's been, and as far as I know this is how it always will be. No matter what happens I know Steven will always be Steven, and that's why he's always been one of my best friends.
Groomsman
I think Greg has everyone fooled. Maybe it's his boyish good looks or his ability to bring people together, but he is not a responsible adult who does responsible adult things. I know everyone else wants to see it, and I'm sure he even does a good job of acting the part. However this isn't Greg, and I have spent much of my time trying to provoke another side of him to come back. When he reappears someday I want to go eat McDonalds way too late at night and dedicate all my time to TV shows I'm not interested in with him again. I haven't succeeded in my attempts and probably never will, but I will always be thankful he helped me transition to Southern and four years later to Loma Linda. Greg's always offered help even when he is in no position to, and I'm grateful that will never change.
Groomsman
Thank you very much, but I am not Amos Chon. That was what I wanted to tell the kind music professor who stopped to talk to me on the promenade at Southern. She was complimenting me on how much she enjoyed my cello recital the previous evening. Since I don't play cello, I could only assume she was talking about Amos. Instead of correcting her I forced a tight lipped smile, thanked her for her compliment, and continued to walk towards my dorm room. People still confuse us often, but if we are similar in appearance we couldn't be more different in character. I mean, Amos is a really nice guy. He still has a compassion for people that most either lose or becomes jaded as adults. I couldn't be more thankful for Amos' kindness to me during our friendship, as undeserving as I was sometimes.
Groomsman
Mel is probably the only reason I have more than 20 friends on Facebook. When I first met him, Mel can be best described as an impulsive organizing foodie. Basically this boiled down to him gathering a bunch of people to track down the best places to eat in southern California whenever he felt like it. Fortunately he was in the mood often. His actions are a symptom of having a big heart, and his kindness was infectious. With his help I was able to follow him to AMEN clinics, join praise teams he led out, and I even followed him over to his parents' house in Reno for Christmas. I know Mel is getting ready to head out of the country as missionary dentist with Maureen and I wish them both all the best. I am just thankful to have gotten to know him while he was in Loma Linda.
Groomsman
Mike and I met when we went to an AA meeting together. Neither of us has a drinking problem but since that day I've spent almost every day working or talking with him. From all the time I've spent with Mike I can honestly say I haven't met too many people who have the combination of a big heart and drive like he does. He gives countless hours working on mission trips and community work, dedicates himself perfecting his craft, and still makes time for his friends. Deep down I always hope that I do better than the people around me. I want better grades, better reviews, and to do better work, but Mike is an exception to that competitive side in me. The world needs more people like him in important positions and I can't think of anyone who deserves it more. I'm just lucky he's my friend.
Groomsman
I came to Loma Linda over four years ago. To this day I'm still telling people for the first time that Shawn and I are cousins. The typical response I get is denial, they don't believe me. Then when I insist that we are related people are still in disbelief. It's something I've used to my advantage when I first arrived in California. I would name drop Shawn and chances are the people I met knew who he was. When we were little I remember I would get annoyed at Shawn, he would always be reading while I wanted to go play outside. Shawn still reads way more than I do today, but I realized similar values from our family ultimately stands out over everything else. I'll always appreciate how Shawn looked out for me and treated me like he wanted to be treated when he first came to Loma Linda.
Groomsman
Next to Steven, I've probably known Joe the longest. He's also put up with more from me than almost anyone else I know. I don't remember exactly how long ago, but we met when both of us would look forward to setting things on fire in the woods behind church after service. If we couldn't set any fires, we would search around for the strawberry Creme Savers the church had saved away for the choir. In all my years of knowing Joe there are two constants. I have never seen him lose his temper and I haven't seen him without his curly hair. Both characteristics help him draw everybody's attention when he walks in. I've seen entire rooms immediately smile when Joe walks in, it's honestly a gift.