Invitations will be sent in June. Kindly RSVP by August 1st so we can plan accordingly. We hope to celebrate with you!
Please plan to arrive no later than 3:30pm, when doors open, to ensure you have enough time to be seated. The ceremony will begin promptly at 4pm.
Our wedding will be a formal affair. Gentlemen are encouraged to wear a tuxedo or suit and tie, while ladies may opt for a gown or a midi-length cocktail dress. We cannot wait to celebrate with you in style!
The entire wedding day will take place at a private venue called Villa De Fiore, centered lakeside in the heart of Monserate Winery. Watch for signage directing you to the Bowers wedding as there are multiple venues on-site.
Our venue has free self parking available and overnight parking is allowed. Since there will be an open bar, we do encourage you to Uber/Lyft for a safe and responsible (& fun) night! Please consider scheduling your ride ahead of time, as they are limited in Fallbrook. Please also be aware that the roads leading to Monserate are winding. We have a limited number of Uber vouchers available to help offset the cost of your ride. To use one, enter the code RZDCFZUKRXB when booking through the Uber app. You can add the voucher under your payment methods. Please note, availability is limited—first come, first served!
We love your little ones, however this is an adults-only event with the exception of the children in the wedding party. We appreciate you for making arrangements ahead of time.
Due to venue capacity, our guest list is strictly invite-only and limited to those formally listed on your invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!
We are kicking off our wedding weekend with a welcome event at Stone Brewing World Bistro & Gardens - Escondido (25 min away from Monserate), and while optional, we would love for you to join us if you're already in town! Feel free to stop by, grab a drink, and say hello to the soon-to-be bride and groom. There will be heavy apps and drinks to enjoy.
We want to ensure you enjoy your time and meal on our wedding day. When you RSVP, please let us know about your dietary needs.
The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outdoors in a garden setting, while the reception will be hosted indoors. In any case of inclement weather, the show will go on! We recommend bringing a light jacket or sweater regardless as it can get chilly at night.
Our ceremony will be unplugged. We are so excited that you'll be joining us, and we want you to relax and be fully present during. We have a wonderful photographer who will capture every moment, and we'll make sure to share those photos as soon as we can! With this in mind, we kindly ask our guests to stow all electronic devices on silent during the ceremony. But after? Please be our guest.
Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for! However, for those who would like some guidance, we've included a registry tab on our website.
You can find hotel recommendations under the 'Travel' tab. There are also plenty of great Airbnb and Vrbo options throughout San Diego County.
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