Flight
Flying into SJC will get you closest to the wedding festivities. SFO & OAK are also good options but both will require about +/- an hour drive down depending on traffic.
Hotel
We've set up a group rate at this hotel - Rate: $209 per night - Nights: Friday, November 20 and Saturday, November 21 - Rooms: Limited, so we recommend booking soon - Deadline: Reserve before 5:00 PM on October 21 to get this rate Book here: https://app.marriott.com/resview2?id=1790366914104&key=GRP&app=resvlink
Hotel
A short ride-share away from the venue located in Downtown San Jose.