FAQs
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Can I RSVP online, or do I need to mail in my RSVP card?
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Please RSVP directly on this website under the RSVP tab. If your invitation includes multiple guests, you can RSVP for everyone in your party by entering just one person’s name as it appears on the invitation.
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Where should I stay?
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You’ll find our hotel room blocks listed under the Travel tab. The San Ramon Marriott is our preferred hotel, as transportation will be provided: - To and from the Welcome Party - From the wedding venue at the end of the night We recommend booking your stay at the San Ramon Marriott for the most convenient experience throughout the weekend. We have also reserved a room block at a nearby Hilton. If you choose to stay at either property, we kindly ask that you book through our room block link so we can keep track of guest accommodations. You’re also welcome to stay elsewhere nearby — there are plenty of great hotel and Airbnb options in the area.
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Will transportation be provided?
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Transportation will be provided for select events throughout the weekend: - Welcome Party: Shuttles to and from the San Ramon Marriott - Wedding Night: Shuttles from the venue to the After Party and to the San Ramon Marriott Please note that transportation will not be provided to the ceremony, so guests should plan to drive or arrange a ride. Parking is also available at all events.
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What time should I arrive?
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Please plan to arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony begins to allow time for parking, seating, and getting settled.
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Is there parking at the venue?
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Yes — complimentary parking will be available on-site.
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What should I wear?
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The wedding dress code is semi-formal. Tuxedos and gowns are welcome, as are suits and cocktail dresses. For the wedding, we kindly ask guests to avoid wearing white or yellow dresses, as those colors will be reserved for the bride and bridal party. The Welcome Party will be dressy casual — think sundresses, jumpsuits, or summer evening attire.
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Will the ceremony or reception be indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors, weather permitting, and the reception will be indoors immediately following at the same venue. The venue address can be found on the Travel tab.
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Will there be food and drinks?
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Yes! Guests will enjoy a full dinner and open bar during the reception.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We wish we could celebrate with everyone we love, but due to space limitations, only the guests listed on your invitation are invited. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate together!
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Are children invited?
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We love your little ones, but the wedding day will be an adults-only celebration. Children are welcome to join us for the Welcome Party. If you plan to bring children to the Welcome Party, please be sure to note this on your RSVP.
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What will the weather be like?
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Pleasanton in late June typically enjoys warm, sunny days and cooler evenings. Average daytime temperatures are in the low 80s, with evenings cooling down to the mid-50s. We recommend light, breathable fabrics for the outdoor ceremony and bringing a wrap or jacket for later in the evening.