FAQs

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What should I wear?

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Our dress code is black tie optional! We’d love for our guests to dress up! Think black tie optional — tuxedos or dark suits and floor length dresses — but please have fun with it! Feel free to incorporate bold or playful colors into your look. We want the evening to feel festive, vibrant, and full of personality — just like you!

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Is there transportation?

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For your convenience, we will be providing shuttle transportation on the day of the wedding: Shuttles will depart from Pelham on Main (time TBD) to the ceremony location. After the ceremony, transportation will also be provided to the reception venue. If you're not staying at the hotel, no worries — Uber and other rideshare services are easily accessible in the area. We want everyone to enjoy the day stress-free, so feel free to leave the driving to someone else!

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What should I do with the time between the ceremony and reception?

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We’re really looking forward to celebrating with all of you — and that includes joining in on cocktail hour with our guests! To make that possible, there will be a short break between the ceremony and reception. We encourage you to take this time to explore the area — whether it’s grabbing a coffee, a drink at one of the local bars, or checking out the local shops and sights in Chatham (where the ceremony takes place) or Harwich (where the reception will be held). Cape Cod is beautiful and we hope you enjoy a little time to take it in!

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Are kids welcome?

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The reception is adults only. That said, children are more than welcome to attend the ceremony at the church. We’re so grateful to celebrate with your whole family in these special moments! Thank you for understanding — we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Can I bring a date?

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We are so excited to celebrate with our closest family and friends! To help us keep things intimate, we kindly ask that only those whose names are listed on the invitation attend. Thank you for understanding and for being part of this special moment — we can’t wait to celebrate with you!