FAQs
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How & When should I RSVP?
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To RSVP, please click the RSVP tab here on our website and type in your name. All invited guests in your party will appear here to mark as "attending" or "not attending." You can RSVP any time prior to the RSVP deadline. Please make sure to RSVP no later that October 12.
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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Please RSVP by October 12, 2025. All RSVPs received after this date will be marked as not attending; we will be sending a final headcount to our vendors following this deadline.
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What if I don't RSVP in time?
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If we don’t receive your RSVP by October 12, we’ll have to assume you won’t be able to join us. We truly hope to celebrate with you, but we also need to provide our vendors with a final headcount. To ensure your seat, meal, and drinks are reserved, please RSVP by October 12. Anyone who has not RSVP'd by October 12 will be marked as "not attending."
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What should I do if I cannot make it?
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We’ll be sad not to see you, but thank you for letting us know! If you cannot attend, please RSVP with “Will Not Attend.” If you’ve already RSVP’d “Attending” but find you’re unable to join us, please reach out to Caley as soon as possible so we can adjust our plans.
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Where should I stay for the wedding weekend?
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We’re beyond grateful you’re making the trip to celebrate with us! Head over to the “Travel” tab for hotel suggestions. If an Airbnb is more your style but you’re not sure where to book, just check in with the bride first—we promise she knows the area better than Google Maps!
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What time should I arrive by?
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The ceremony will begin punctually at 3:30pm. Please plan to arrive between 3:00-3:15pm to allow yourself plenty of time to park, sign guestbooks, mingle with other guests, and find your seats.
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Where should I park?
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The Reed House has a large parking lot to accommodate our guests for both the ceremony and reception.
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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
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Lord willing, our ceremony will be held outdoors, with the reception indoors afterward. Since it’s November in the South, the weather could go either way—warm or chilly. We recommend checking the forecast when planning your outfit. (And feel free to send up a few prayers for perfect weather that day!)
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Is there a dress code for the wedding?
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Yes! We’re going for Cocktail with a Touch of Charm. Think cocktail dresses, pantsuits, slacks or khakis with a button-up (jacket optional)—something a bit dressy but still comfortable. Our venue does not permit blue jeans, and we ask that white be saved for the bride. We can’t wait to see how you add your own flair!
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Can I bring a date/plus one?
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We’re so grateful for your love and support! Our guest list is at full capacity, so we can only accommodate those guests formally listed on the invitation. If your invite says “& Guest,” then please bring your date—we’d love to meet them!
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Are kids invited?
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Our wedding and reception will be adults-only, with the exception of a few children. If your children are invited, your invitation will say “Your Name & Family.” We so appreciate your understanding and hope you enjoy a relaxing evening out!
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Can I take pictures?
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We love our photographer and videographer, and know you will, too! We want our media team to capture every special moment without distraction. For this reason, our ceremony will be an unplugged event. Once the ceremony begins, we kindly ask that you silence and put away your phones and cameras. Please also stay seated and avoid stepping into the aisle so our photo and video team can do their best work. We promise to share their beautiful photos and video(s) with you afterward! After the ceremony, feel free to take as many pictures as you’d like—and use the QR code provided to upload and share them with us.
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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
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We kindly ask the ladies to refrain from wearing white, ivory, champagne, or cream color attire.
