Wedding Party
Milena Pájaro-van de Stadt
Bride
I love Caleb!
Caleb Paxton
Groom
and I love Milena!
Flavia Pájaro-van de Stadt
Maid of Honor
Flavia is a violist, mandolist, knitter, crocheter, barista extraordinaire, and the mother and true hero of the one and only Squiggle. She is brilliant, she is witty… and just to brag— Flavia is the extraordinary and adored sister of the bride!
Jeffrey Goldberg
Best Man
A veteran monster hunter and slayer of vocals. Jeffrey isn’t just the best man—he’s the best, man.
Stefan Pájaro-van de Stadt
Bridesman
While his adoring fans and fellow songwriters know him as Sad Song Stefan, we know him as our valiant and loving family man, and yes, we know he’s handsome. “Let’s goooooo”
Adrián Pájaro-van de Stadt
Groomsman
Gamers know him as Glubalug. True believers know him as Clappy Slappy. And his family and friends know him as the most fiercely loyal and charming guy, maybe ever?
Bryan Lee
Bridesman
It’s our favorite foozball guru, violin guru, travel guru, points guru, and guru of being an incredible friend: THE Bryan Lee.
Kaitlin Mikatarian
Groomswoman
Greyhound super-mom and just the coolest gal. Saved Caleb’s life once, nbd.
Carmen Johnson Pájaro
Bridesmaid
Whether it’s being a gazelle on the treadmill, slaying the stage on baroque violin, or bringing joy to anyone who knows her, her passion is infectious and so is her laugh.
Nick Astin
Groomsman
Caleb’s longest-serving friend, and knower of some of his Most Embarrassing Secrets. Always up to the task, no one shows up ready to “do the damn thing” quite like Nick.
Spencer Geiger
Officiant
A consummate host and master chef with an encyclopedic knowledge of Real Housewives, Spencer is our very own modern James Bond—without all the explosions and gunfire.
Dominique van de Stadt
Mother of the Bride
If we tried to list everything that makes Mommy amazing, we’d fall infinitely short. She is our hero, and we love her. Be prepared - she might wrangle you into a pickleball game at the reception.
Octavio Pájaro
Father of the Bride
While going through security at the airport, he was once asked by a TSA agent, “do you have anything in your pockets?” He replied “only wishes.” Best dad ever.
Magellan Pájaro-van de Stadt
Ring Bearer
Also known as Gelly, Gellifer Lopez, Gellykins, Schmuyken, and “the legend himself”