Schedule
Thursday, June 4, 2026
Big Woozy Band x The Ritz - TBD
9:30 pm - 11:00 pm
4 Circuit Avenue, Oak Bluffs, MA 02557
Casual dive bar vibes
The Big Woozy Band is rolling into Oak Bluffs to kick off wedding weekend in style! Join us for a one-night-only concert to welcome our favorite people to Martha’s Vineyard—complete with surprise guest appearances from our ridiculously talented family and friends. Come ready because WE PARTYIN. 🎶✨
Friday, June 5, 2026
Drinks & Dancing at Nomans
4:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Casual backyard party vibe. Bring a sweater as nighttime on the Vineyard tends to be chilly.
Meet us at Nomans on Martha’s Vineyard! We’ll be there for games, drinks, dancing, and a laid-back island night. This is a casual gathering — just show up whenever, grab a drink, and celebrate with us. (Food and beverages available for purchase.) "Freestyle Friday" with DJs and dancing starts at 5:30pm. Can’t wait to see you there!
Saturday, June 6, 2026
Ceremony
4:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Aquinnah, MA 02535
Semi-Formal Garden Attire. Skip stilettos as we will be in grass and gravel. Flats, block heels, or wedges work best. Please avoid wearing white or near-white.
“Aquinnah” means “land under the hill” in the Wôpanâak language. We couldn’t imagine saying our vows anywhere else. Our ceremony will take place at the Aquinnah Lighthouse. This place has become part of our love story and we’re so excited to share it with all of you. You’ll have time before the ceremony to stroll the circle, take in the views, and snap a few photos. The path from the parking lot crosses grassy hills and dirt walkways, so choose shoes you can comfortably walk in. The cliffs rise nearly 150 feet above the shore, their red, orange, and white clay layers shaped by centuries of wind and water. The Aquinnah Gay Head Lighthouse, first built in 1799 and rebuilt in 1856, was moved 129 feet inland in 2015 to protect it from erosion, completed in just 19 days. Please allow 45 minutes to an hour to get to the lighthouse.
Reception
6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
After the ceremony, the celebration continues under the stars at the Weku House—Ernie’s parents’ home and the heart of so many of our favorite memories. This was our home base during COVID, where Caitlin studied for the bar exam, and where countless nights are spent laughing with family and friends. We can't wait to celebrate, toast, and kick off our next chapter with you! Meals will be served family style. Please let us know if you have serious allergies or dietary restrictions. Be sure to bring a sweater or a wrap for the evening as nighttime on the Vineyard can be very chilly.
Happily Ever After Party
9:00 pm - 11:45 pm
When the reception winds down, meet us downstairs for our Happily Ever After Party in The Basement nightclub. The bar will be open, DJ Julie will be spinning, and the dance floor will be calling. We’ll also be serving classic New York City bodega bar bites... because every great night deserves a proper snack. This party wraps up at midnight, and when you’re ready to call it a night, we encourage the perfect Irish goodbye — no need to search for us or say farewell. Just slip out quietly and take the magic with you. Let’s close out the evening under the stars, together.
Sunday, June 7, 2026
Beach Bonfire Farewell Party
4:00 pm
267-125 Seaview Avenue, Edgartown, MA 02539
One last spark before we part. After a late night and a slow morning, join us for a laid-back farewell beach bonfire by the iconic Jaws Bridge. Come as you are (sunglasses encouraged), dip your toes in the sand, warm up by the fire, and savor one last dreamy Martha’s Vineyard afternoon together.