FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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As soon as possible would be preferred! Please let us know no later than August 1st, 2026.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes there is! For our Friday night welcome dinner, please dress in cocktail/dressy casual attire. For our wedding on Saturday, please dress in semi-formal/formal attire. See here for a guide: https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Our wedding ceremony will begin at 4:00 PM. We recommend arriving closer to 3:45 PM if you are not intending to arrive via the shuttle.

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Can I bring a date?

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Regrettably, if your invite did not specify you could, please do not bring one.

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Are kids welcome?

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Unless your invite specified otherwise, children will not be allowed at either of our events. Please be advised, any unexpected children will be put to work, pending state legislation.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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For our Friday night welcome party, there is onsite parking available at The Confluence Hotel. Our wedding venue, Legacy Hill Farm, will hold our ceremony and reception, and onsite parking is available. However, we are providing a shuttle service to and from Legacy Hill Farm, The Confluence Hotel, and Nichols Inn.

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Are there hotel blocks?

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Yes, we have hotel blocks at The Confluence Hotel and Nichols Inn in Hastings, MN. More information can be found on our 'Travel' page!

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What is the weather like in October in Southern Minnesota?

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The weather in early October can be unpredictable in Minnesota, with temperatures ranging from 55 to 85 degrees. We would recommend bringing a jacket or overcoat, as our wedding venue is indoor/outdoor!

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How come I don't get to marry Cheyenne?

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Adam called dibs!