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Location, time, and date:Location, time, and date:

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November 22nd, 2024 at Point Fermin Lighthouse All of the following times are local, PST, so may be different in your time zone. Ceremony and Ceremony Livestream: 3:30pm-4:00pm Social Hour: 4:00pm-5:00pm Reception: 5:00pm-7:00pm

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What's the deal with this event?What's the deal with this event?

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Our wedding will be a hybrid in-person and virtual event. We’ll be having a small outdoor ceremony with family, for which we will be providing high quality masks and all the COVID tests our lovey little hearts desire. In addition, we’ll have a livestreamed virtual option for everyone we love to safely share in the day. We truly wish we could have a big celebration with every single person we can think of, but we need to prioritize our (and your) safety. Please take a look at the “COVID info” section in the Travel page. Stay tuned for more details about our virtual ceremony!

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How will I know which version of the event I’ve been invited to?How will I know which version of the event I’ve been invited to?

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We understand it might be a little bit confusing to decipher which event you’ve been invited to, since we have one invitation for everyone (as opposed to separate invites for separate events). If you’ve been invited to attend in person, chances are you already know. But an easy way to check is to enter your name in the RSVP section. If in-person events don’t show up, we’d love to have you, your family, and your friends at the virtual Ceremony Livestream!

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When do you need my RSVP? How do I RSVP?When do you need my RSVP? How do I RSVP?

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Please the RSVP section of the website. Just type in your name (or the name of someone in your party) and the site will take you through the appropriate steps. For in-person guests, please try to get your RSVP in by September 20th. For virtual guests, it’s not nearly as time sensitive: whenever you get a chance will be just fine. You don’t need to RSVP at all if you feel like being extra mysterious (although we’d certainly appreciate it)!

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Is there parking?Is there parking?

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Not only is there parking, there’s *free* parking. There are many spots at the entrance to the park and a limited number right next to the lighthouse, which will be reserved for guests with mobility needs.

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What time should I arrive at or log into the ceremony?What time should I arrive at or log into the ceremony?

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You can arrive onsite any time before 3:30! It’s a public park, and a very nice place to hang out. The livestream will begin about 15 minutes prior to the ceremony.

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Is there a dress code?Is there a dress code?

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The easiest answer is no. Unless you count comfort. The more complicated answer for those who would like some guidance is: Whimsical Scottish Goth, Semi-Formal. Please feel free to dress with the theme! It may get chilly, we suggest you bring some layers! Full black and tartans are welcome! Honestly, we just want everyone to be comfortable, so wear what makes you feel like you (just please stay away from full red or white). We'll be happy to see you whether you decide to wear jeans or a tux or an inflatable t-rex costume.

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Do I need to dress up to attend via livestream?Do I need to dress up to attend via livestream?

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Need to? No. But dressing up is highly encouraged (if you want to). We want everyone to feel as present as possible. If dressing up helps you do that, then please do! However you choose to celebrate, send us a photo or tag us on social media! We want to see!

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How do we get to the livestream?How do we get to the livestream?

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The livestream will be through EventLive, and a link has been posted in the Links/Recommendations section of this website. No downloads or apps are needed, just click the posted link and you’ll be taken straight there!

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Can I get you something that isn't on the registry? Should I still get you something if I can't be there in person?Can I get you something that isn't on the registry? Should I still get you something if I can't be there in person?

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We don't expect anyone to get us anything! We have a traditional registry for those who would like to partake. In it, we also have cash funds for things like our honeymoon and a downpayment for a house. But yes, we more than welcome items that aren't on the registry! What we really want, from everyone, is some art. Not the kind of art you can buy, or the kind of art you can necessarily sell (artist friends, please do not give us free labor, unless you really, really want to gift it). What we mean is this: sit down at your kitchen table, on your comfy bed, on your living room floor, and make something. Put your name on that thing. Send that thing to us. We want to fill our home with pieces of everyone we know and love.

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Wait...but I'm not good at art.Wait...but I'm not good at art.

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We cannot stress enough how little that matters.

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What should I make, though?What should I make, though?

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Literally anything! Scribble on a takeout menu. Have a finger painting party with your kids. Do an abstract collage of your dog. Let your dog do an abstract collage of you. Let your pets choose your colors. Involve the whole family! Whatever you send us, it's going to be displayed in our home. All art is good art. What we really want is to look at something, and think of you and the fun you had making it. There is absolutely no pressure. We promise we're going to love it. (Just...maybe don't make it wedding themed? Unless that's what you want! Then go for it!)