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The Wedding Website of Heather Buda and Scott Alexander
We expect questions to arise. We hope the list below assists in answering any that do.
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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your kiddos, due to space constraints we can only accommodate those listed in your RSVP. Thank you for understanding.

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Can I bring a date?

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We would love all of our lovely guests to bring a guest of their own, however, we respectfully ask our guests to please NOT bring a plus one unless it is specifically identified on the invitation. Thank you so much for understanding!

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Where should we stay?

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We have a room block at the Boston Marriott Peabody Hotel. Please refer to the 'Travel' section for private link to book. If you prefer to stay elsewhere, we recommend the DoubleTree Boston North Shore (in Danvers). We will be offering a complimentary shuttle to and from the Boston Marriott Peabody Hotel and Wedding Venue on Friday. If you are staying elsewhere, it is up to you to find safe transportation.

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How do I get the to the wedding venue? Will transportation be provided?

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We will offer a free shuttle to and from the Boston Marriott Peabody and Wedding Venue. It is the guest's responsibility to get to the shuttle on time as there will not be additional pick-ups. The shuttle will depart the Marriott Peabody at 4:15P on Friday the 19th. At the end of the night, the shuttle will depart the venue at 10:30P and return guests to the hotel. The DoubleTree Hilton Boston North Shore is only an 12-15 minute drive from the Marriott should you choose to Uber/Lyft over to catch the shuttle.

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes. There is parking directly across from the Mansion should you decide to drive. Please ensure you have a designated driver.

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony

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All wedding festivities will be taking place at the Mansion on Turner Hill in Ipswich, MA. As the ceremony is scheduled to commence at 5P we ask that you please arrive between 4:30P and 4:45P on Friday, July 19th. To ensure the best experience for everyone, anyone who arrives late will not be seated and will be asked to wait outside the ceremony grounds. We appreciate your attentiveness to this detail.

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What is the dress code?

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We ask that our guests please arrive in Elevated Summer Cocktail Attire. We understand July can be hot, so ladies, light and airy fabrics such as chiffon, linen, or organza are great options. Gentlemen, we would love to see you in a nice summer suit.

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Are there any colors you prefer me to wear/not wear?

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Our dress code is Elevated Summer Cocktail attire, however, given it is the heat of summer we encourage you get a little creative and colorful with your choices. Think florals, light fabrics, soft or vibrant summer colors, summer suits. Please do not arrive in white or ivory - a girl's gotta stand out ;) Ladies, we request that you please do not wear anything in the champagne color family.

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Will the events take place indoors or outdoors?

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We have full faith the weather will be on our side on our wedding day. As such, please see below for anticipated locations: Ceremony - Outdoors (5:00P) Cocktail Hour & Lawn Games - Outdoors Dinner - Outdoors under a Tent Dancing etc... - Inside the (breathtaking) Mansion

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! We will have options for those consuming alcohol and those not.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We will be having an UNPLUGGED Ceremony. There will be an announced opportunity to take photos during the ceremony. Outside of said announcement, we ask that you please unplug from your devices and enjoy being fully present in the moment.

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What is the best way to RSVP?

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PLEASE use the online RSVP option.

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Is there an RSVP deadline?

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YES! Please RSVP by June 1.

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I'm visiting from out of town. What can I do while I'm in visiting for the wedding?

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Please refer to the 'Things to Do' page for activity suggestions

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Yes! Please refer to the 'Registry' page

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Can I bring my gift to the wedding?

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Your presence is present enough, but should you wish to bring a gift to our wedding, there will be a gift/card table for your convenience.

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When will the reception end? Will there be an afterparty?

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Dancing will conclude inside the Mansion at 10:30PM. We will offer a complimentary shuttle ride back to the Boston Marriott Peabody at 10:30PM. Given our hotel restrictions, we will not be offering an afterparty.

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What if my question is not answered here?

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Please email buda.alexander.wedding@gmail.com

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