4:00 pm in the vineyard at Sycamore Creek Vineyards
There will be a cocktail hour immediately following the ceremony while pictures are taken (you're welcome) and reception will follow immediately after the cocktail hour. The reception will be in the tasting room at the winery. Don't worry - everything is at the same place and in close proximity to one another.
See "Travel" section for links to hotel block information. Some guests are also staying in Air-B-n-B in the Morgan Hill area to be near the venue. While the ceremony and reception are both in Morgan Hill, CA; some guests are splitting time in San Francisco and Morgan Hill.
YOU BETCHA.
I mean, you're going to a wedding, people. Don't show up in your pajamas and maybe a shower would be recommended, but no need to be super formal. Come ready to sit for a little while and dance for a long while.
100% chance of tears. Likely at the reception during speeches too.
Duh. Safety first, people! There will be a shuttle provided to/from the winery and Holiday Inn in Morgan Hill (see "Travel" section for room block info).
Absolutely not - in fact, scholars hold that it doesn't take away from your manliness if you cry all the time and even the most manliest of men cry. This answer was written by Delores Justine Ossman and I am going to marry Bryan McDonald because I am Delores and Bryan definitely didn't write this.