FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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The deadline to RSVP is August 18, 2025. If we do not receive your RSVP either on the website or by mail it will automatically be marked as "declined" We are not keeping up with phone calls and texts so please actually do an RSVP!!!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Sure! Please refer to the Travel page on this website for places in Downtown Wilmington and Leland.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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While the wedding will start at 4pm, you may arrive 30 minutes early. This will allow you to park and take a seat.

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Is there a dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends all dressed up with us. Colors are fall colors. The dress code is semi formal. For example, cocktail dresses for women and blazer and trousers for men. No Jeans!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we do love your little ones, we are respectfully requesting no children.

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What should I do if I RSVP and can't make it?

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If you can't make it, please let us know or change your RSVP on the website. This will help us be able to plan accordingly with our guest count.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is onsite parking available at the Venue. We will be also offering a shuttle to and from the venue from Downtown Wilmington

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Can I record during the ceremony?

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We are having an "UNPLUGGED" ceremony. We have hired professionals to capture photos/videos, and we would hate for someone's device to block that. Please don't record until after we have said our vows. After that feel free to take as many photos and videos as you would like! We look forward to seeing them all.

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What are our dinner choices?

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There will be a dinner buffet provided. Please let us know of any food allergies.

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Will there be a bar?

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Of course!! And it will be open.