FAQs

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Are children allowed?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adult-focused celebration. A small number of children have been invited including a few infants of the bridal party, but we kindly ask that all other guests make arrangements for a child-free evening. If your child(ren) have been invited, their name(s) will be listed on your invite! We so appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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How do I reserve my spot?

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To RSVP, please visit the "RSVP" page on our website and fill out the online form. Please RSVP at your earliest convenience and no later than May 25th, 2026. We look forward to celebrating with you!

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What if I do not rsvp in time?

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If you do not RSVP by May 25th, 2026, you will be marked as "not attending". We would love celebrating with you, however, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVP's.

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What should I do if I cannot make it?

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You will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate "Will NOT Attend" on the RSVP page so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Attending", but find that you will not make it, please notify us as soon as you are aware.

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Is there a dress code for the wedding?

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Yes! We encourage guests to wear elegant and formal attire. Please visit the "Outfit Inspo" page for more details.

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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?

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For the ladies: We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the Bride: Whites, Ivories, Creams, or any color that photographs as White (light yellow, etc). If the dress has white as the base color but a colored pattern over it please also avoid wearing it. We also ask you avoid the color black as that is reserved for the ladies in our wedding party. For the fellas: We kindly ask that you wear a black, blue, green, or gray suit. White undershirts are ACCEPTABLE! Please no jeans or shorts. If you have any questions or need some inspiration please visit our "Outfit Inspo" page.

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When and where is the wedding?

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The ceremony and reception will take place on Saturday, July 25th, 2026 at The Vinterra. Ceremony and reception details can be found on the "Schedule" Page

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Where can I park upon arrival?

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On-site parking is available at The Vinterra and also available overnight. If you plan on having a good ole time, please be safe and get a ride share at the end of the night.

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What time should I arrive?

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Although the ceremony starts at 4:00pm, we recommend that guests arrive at least 15 minutes before the official ceremony start time so you can get settled before the proceedings.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We’d love to celebrate with everyone, but due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those listed on your invitation. If you received a plus one, their name or "guest" will be included when you RSVP.

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Will there be an open bar?

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YES! Please drink responsibly - please get a ride share at the end of the night to make sure you’re safe! Overnight parking is available at the venue and you can pick up your car Sunday morning.

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I have dietary restrictions. Will there be options for me?

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Absolutely. Please include any dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we’ll make sure there’s something delicious for you.

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Where should we stay?

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Hotel Block Information Coming Soon!

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Is this an indoor or outdoor event?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outside. Please keep in mind it is late July in Oklahoma, so it will be hot! The reception will be inside.