We want every guest to feel their best fabulous self - formal but fabulous PLEASE. We DO have a fantasy tilt to the wedding festivities so please bring your best Lord of the Rings/Game of Thrones/Dungeons and Dragons/Sailor Moon/Miyazaki couture!!
While we love kids - with the exception of our flowergirls, this is a party by and for the adults!
If your online RSVP says "and guest" please do, otherwise we would prefer just you. We do have numbers to maintain and ask your help in keeping this.
We both have a love for tabletop games like Dungeons and Dragons and a natural 20 is the highest you can roll on a 20-sided die without any assistance. It means critical hit, success in most circumstances, and they are hard to get with the laws of probability on a 20-sided die. It's what we see our love as: something rare but perfect. And the 22 is the year we're getting married, obviously!
Not everyone at this ceremony and in life, in general, identifies with the pronouns that they were assigned at birth. For the courtesy of all of our guests and as good practice for the real world, we will not be assuming anyone's pronouns at this event, and ask you do the same. You may be asked your pronouns or find yourself in the position of having to ask someone else theirs. This is fine, and totally respectful. This wedding is a safe space, not only for our brides, but for all our guests, many of whom are transgender or gender expansive.