FAQs

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When should I RSVP?

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Formal invitations will be mailed on April 3, 2026, and will include a QR code linking to our RSVP page on Zola. We kindly request that all responses be submitted by May 2, 2026.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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If your invitation includes a guest, their name will appear on your RSVP. Due to venue capacity, we kindly ask that only those listed on the invitation attend, including children.

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Where should I stay?

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Pala Casino is our top recommendation. Harrah’s Resort and Pechanga Resort are also great nearby options. There are a few Airbnbs in Pauma Valley, though availability is limited. For more details, please see the “Travel” page of our website.

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How do I access the venue?

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Please enter through the front gate of Pauma Valley Country Club at: 16270 Pauma Valley Drive Pauma Valley, CA 92061 This is the main gate off Highway 76. Please be sure to enter this address into your GPS rather than the venue address. Upon arrival, you will check in at the gate by providing your name to the attendant. Parking will be available onsite.

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What are the transportation options for getting to and from the wedding?

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Guests are welcome to drive themselves, and on-site parking will be available. Due to the remote location, ride share availability in the area is limited. We highly recommend reaching out to Gregory Courtad at the Pauma Valley Country Club in advance to explore transportation options at gregorycourtad@gmail.com. Transportation arranged through the club will be at the guest’s expense. If you prefer to arrange your own transportation, we recommend scheduling ride shares in advance for both arrival and departure.

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What should I know about parking?

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Complimentary parking will be in a dirt lot adjacent to the residence. Cars may be left overnight if needed.

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What time should I arrive?

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We recommend arriving 20–30 minutes before the ceremony to allow time for parking and seating.

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Will the celebration be outdoors?

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Yes, both the ceremony and reception will take place outdoors on the lawn.

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What should I wear?

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We’re celebrating outdoors in Pauma Valley, and kindly request Formal Attire. Tuxedos, dark suits with a tie, floor length gowns, or sophisticated cocktail dresses. Please keep in mind that May weather can bring warm days and cooler evenings, a wrap or shawl is recommended. Block heels or wedges are also encouraged, as the ceremony will take place on a golf course.

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Can dietary restrictions and allergies be accommodated?

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Please note any dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we will do our best to accommodate all guests. Our buffet will offer a variety of options, including vegan selections, and our catering team is happy to assist with any additional allergies or restrictions.

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Is the venue accessible?

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Yes, the venue is accessible and does not require navigating stairs.

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Will the ceremony be unplugged?

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Yes, we kindly ask that all guests keep phones and cameras put away during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present with us.

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Who should I contact with questions or day-of changes?

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For any last-minute questions or updates, please contact our planner Melissa Loos at (949) 637-3151.

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Questions?

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We’ll be updating this website as our wedding date approaches, so please check back for the most up-to-date details. If you have any questions that aren’t answered here, feel free to reach out to us at bandc2026@gmail.com.