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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
October 3, 2020
Tulsa, OK
#BrenaGetsThrashed

Brena & Ben

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Wedding Party

Meet our family and friends helping us walk down the aisle!

Adena Alvis

Matron of Honor

Brena & Adena met in their early 20's in the SCA. They have been inseperable ever since!


Jordan "Raulff" Smith

Groomsman

Ben and Jordan met in the SCA. They are often confused for each other and share many passions in common, including terrifying women.

Lauren Meadows

Bridesmaid

Lauren is Brena's beloved neice.


Drake Thrash

Groomsman

Drake is Ben's rock, his boy, his son. Everything good. He is the first thing Ben felt he did right.

Amanda Hall

Bridesmaid

Brena & Amanda also met through friends in the SCA. They are weirdly similar and are planning both their wedding this year.


TJ Davis

Groomsman

Tony, Ben's middle brother, is an absolute goofball. He is always there for me. He plays the bass in our band Enslaved by Fear.

Tristan Davis

Groomsman

Tristan, Ben's youngest brother, is extremely talented, shy, and sweet. He is the architect of all the music foe Enslaved by Fear.


Serenity Thrash

Flower Girl

Ben's baby, our little princess. 100% ball of energy.

Luke & Liam Meadows

Ring Bearer

Brena's twin baby nephews.


Logan Meadows

Usher

Brena's oldest nephew and cuddle buddy

Levi Meadows

Usher

Brena's middle nephew and ball of energy


Bryan Meadows

Officiant

Brena's big brother and role model

Emma Sikich

Wedding Coordinator

Emma and Brena met through work and had an immediate kinship. They were work spouses for years, but even though they no longer work together, they still rely on each other for emotional support. Emma kindly offered her great organization skills to help the wedding run smoothly on the day of!


Brent Meadows

Father of the Bride

Brena's beloved daddy

LaRena Meadows

Mother of the Bride

Brena's beloved mom


Heidi Thrash-Davis

Mother of the Groom

Ben's beloved mom

Tony Davis

Father of the Groom

Ben's beloved dad