FAQs

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Where can we watch your wedding virtually?

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We will be livstreaming our wedding on facebook! We will share it on both our pages and on the facebook event page.

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Updates

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We are in the wedding week! Look forward to seeing everyone! Please remember if you are feeling unwell or have come into contact with anyone sick, we are asking you to join us virtually instead of in person. We will post the link here an on our website.

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There is a chance of rain on your wedding day. What will happen if it rains?

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We rented a tent for this very reason. If it rains we will have the wedding under the tent and open sided awning that we will also use for the reception.

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Are you cancelling your wedding?

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No, one way or another, we are getting married October 3rd. We will be following local health guidelines and keeping our guests up to date on this website.

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I’m uncomfortable coming due to the pandemic. Will your feelings be hurt?

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Not at all! We understand that many will not be comfortable traveling or coming to gatherings at this time. Please do not feel obligated to come. We will also have a livestream option.

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Will you have a live stream option for your wedding?

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Yes, we are looking into service options and will post a link to this site.

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Are you sending out paper invitations?

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Yes, we will send out paper invites by the end of July.

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When should I RSVP by?

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We need all RSVPs in the mail by September 7th. You can also RSVP here on this site.

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Is your ceremony going to be outdoors?

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Yes

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Can I take my own photos?

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We have hired two amazing, professional photographers to take photos of our ceremony, so we ask that you keep your phones/cameras/ipads away (and on silent) for our ceremony. Once the ceremony is over, feel free to take as many photos as you would like ( #BrenaGetsThrashed). Not only do we prefer it, it's in our photography contract to have an "unplugged" ceremony.

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Do you have a wedding #hashtag?

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Yep! It is #BrenaGetsThrashed

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Are masks required?

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While they are not required in our area, we are asking our guests to wear masks. We will have masks there and be spacing out seating to assist with social distancing.

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Will there be food?

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Yes! We are having heavy hors d’oeuvres during the reception, as well as lots of cake!

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Where are you registered?

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We are registered at Zola, Bed Bath & Beyond, and Amazon. You can click the registry section up at the top to find them all.

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IT IS THE DAY OF AND I AM LOST! BRENA & BEN, HELP ME!

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No. Please, just google it. All the addresses you need are posted here, on the facebook save the date, and on the invitations. There are signs on the road and balloons on the mailbox. Brena's phone will be turned over to her wedding coordinator as soon as she gets to the ceremony site and will not be returned to her until after the reception.