FAQs

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What is the address for the venue?

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4978 Lakemont-Himrod Rd, Dundee, NY 14837

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What time is the ceremony?

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We’re kicking things off at 6:00pm sharp, just as the sun begins to dip and the sky puts on its best show. Picture golden light filtering through the trees, a soft breeze in the air, and you in your seat—swoon levels off the charts. We recommend arriving by 5:30pm to take it all in before the main event begins. This is your front-row ticket to the start of something truly magical.

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No Politics! Strictly Good Vibes Only

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This is a strictly good vibes only event. We're here for love, laughter, and possibly embarrassing dance moves—not debates. We ask that everyone leave politics at the door and focus on the joy of the day. Let's keep the conversation light, the toasts heartfelt, and the dance floor full—because that’s what truly matters!

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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Let’s Keep It Unplugged, Folks Our ceremony is a no-phones, no-tablets, no-screens zone. Why? Because we want your full hearts, big smiles, and happy tears—not the back of your phone in every photo. If you’re tempted to sneak a snap, don’t—we will lovingly but firmly ask you to put it away or step out. We’ve got a rockstar photographer capturing all the magic, so you can truly be present with us. Once we’re officially hitched? Snap, post, and boogie away—you can take all the photos you want during the reception! Just give us your best angles.

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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We sure do: #braicuforeverandalways Whether you're capturing that killer dance move, sunset over the vines, or your perfectly coordinated outfit—tag away! We can’t wait to relive the magic through your photos, stories, and behind-the-scenes moments. Snap it, share it, and sprinkle a little extra joy on our day.

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Are plus ones and children allowed?

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We absolutely love your little ones—but this time, we're raising a glass to an adults-only celebration! It’s a vineyard, after all, and we fully intend to enjoy it properly. Our wedding is invitation only, so please refer to your invite for details on plus ones. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to sip, toast, and celebrate with you!

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But what will I wear?

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We’d love for our guests to dress in semi-formal or cocktail attire—elevated yet comfortable enough to enjoy a beautiful day in the vineyard! Think suits, cocktail dresses, dressy separates, or polished jumpsuits that reflect the joy of the occasion. Please avoid anything silk as we have a family member with a severe allergy! Since our ceremony will take place outdoors, we highly recommend block heels, wedges, flats, or dress boots to keep you steady on natural terrain. Stilettos and thin heels may be tricky on grass and gravel! Most importantly, wear something that makes you feel AMAZING—we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Should I fly or drive?

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You should drive, don't be a b*tch. Seriously though - Flying means overpriced tickets, airport madness, and renting a car anyway. Skip the hassle, turn up the tunes, and enjoy the scenic ride. It’s the Finger Lakes—lean into the adventure!

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Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?

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We haven’t reserved hotel blocks—but don’t worry, you’ve got options! From charming Bed & Breakfasts to lakeside resorts and modern hotels, the area is full of great places to stay. We’ve listed some of our favorites on the Travel page to help narrow it down. The Finger Lakes is a popular spot for summer getaways (hello, wine tours), so we highly recommend booking your accommodations early to snag the best locations and rates. Trust us—your future self, glass of rosé in hand, will thank you.

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Will there be shuttle to and/or from the hotel(s) to the venue?

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We won’t have a shuttle service, but we encourage guests to carpool or arrange transportation in advance. Dundee and the surrounding area are perfect for a scenic drive, and there are local options available if you need a ride.

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our ceremony will be outdoors in the vineyard, while cocktail hour and the reception will take place indoors. Guests will walk to the ceremony in grass. For that reason, stiletto or otherwise-thin heels are not recommended.

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What weather should I expect?

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June in Dundee, NY is when the Finger Lakes really start showing off. For June 12, you can typically expect daytime highs around 76–78°F and evening lows near 52–55°F. It’s usually warm, breezy, and beautifully green—perfect for a pondside ceremony. That said, summer showers do occasionally make a cameo, so a light layer or umbrella wouldn’t hurt just in case.

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What should I expect after the ceremony?

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Once we’ve sealed the deal with a kiss, it’s time to sip, stroll, and shop! Head over to Wine Hour to grab a glass of Tabora wine—handcrafted right here by Adrian’s family. While you’re at it, take your time exploring the Tabora storefront, where you’ll find homemade goodies, baked treats, and bottle-worthy souvenirs, all lovingly made with family pride. Don’t forget your wallet—you just might discover the perfect jam, pastry, or bottle to remember the day by. While we sneak away for a few golden-hour portraits (Jason, you're not invited haha), enjoy the scene, and we’ll rejoin you soon for dancing, laughter, and a night of celebration under the stars.

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes! Guests should park in the main lot at Tabora Farm & Winery, then take a short walk across the street to Adrian’s grandmother’s pond, where the ceremony will take place. It’s an easy, scenic stroll—and the perfect way to ease into the magic of a sunset celebration. After the ceremony, you'll head back across the street to Tabora’s wine tasting room for the reception, where the real party begins. Think delicious food, dancing, and plenty of toasts to forever.