FAQs
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Can I bring a guest?
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Due to the intimate nature of our wedding, invitations are limited to those we’ve personally invited. Thank you for understanding!
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Can I send a physical gift instead?
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While we truly appreciate the thought, we strongly prefer cash contributions over physical gifts (because, let’s be honest, moving every 13 weeks means we don’t need more boxes to unpack!). But if there’s one special thing you really want to send, please check in with the bride or groom first for our current mailing address—our “home base” changes pretty often!
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Is there hiking involved?
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Don’t worry—no hiking boots required for the ceremony! While we haven’t officially chosen the exact spot just yet, rest assured that whatever location we pick will be easy to access with no intense trails or uphill climbs. We know not everyone shares our love for the “outdoorsy outdoors,” and we’re making sure it’s comfortable for all our guests.
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When should I RSVP by?
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As soon as you can, please! Our final ceremony location depends heavily on how many guests are able to attend. Most ceremony sites don’t allow more than 10–12 people, and we currently have about 15 people invited—so your RSVP helps us lock in a location that can actually fit everyone. The sooner we know, the better we can plan something beautiful (and legal!) for all.
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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?
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Yes! We’d love to spend more time with you than just an hour or two on ceremony day. Since we know how far everyone is traveling to be with us (and how much that means), we’re planning a casual dinner the night before the wedding and a small reception-style gathering after the ceremony. Details will be shared as we finalize them—but please know, your presence means so much, and we’re excited to make memories beyond just “I do.”
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I still have a question—should I reach out to the bride or the groom?
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Definitely message the bride. Blake is amazing, but there’s about a 100% chance he’ll respond with “Good question, let me ask Alyssa.” He likely doesn’t know what time anything starts, where we’re staying, or what state our ceremony is in (okay, maybe the state… hopefully). Alyssa’s the master planner, spreadsheet queen, and the reason this whole thing is happening smoothly. Trust us—go straight to the source.
