FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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As this is a destination wedding, we understand that not everyone may be able to attend. Kindly RSVP at your earliest convenience. Please note that any response not received by November 30th, 2025, will be considered a regretfully declined invitation.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Guests are invited to arrive at 3:30 PM. The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00 PM.
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Is there a dress code?
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We’re excited to celebrate a non-traditional wedding and want all of our guests to feel like part of the wedding party! To help create a beautiful, cohesive look, we ask that everyone wear black, white, ivory and/or champagne . Don’t be afraid to wear white—this day is about all of us celebrating together in unity and style. Feel free to choose something that reflects your personality while keeping within these colors. Please refrain from wearing things with a silver or grey hue. Please use this link to review vision board and get inspired! https://pin.it/3bjg3UhKI
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Are kids welcome?
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Due to limited capacity, we kindly request that our celebration remain an adults-only event.
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Can I bring a date?
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Due to limited guest capacity, we kindly ask that only those formally invited attend the celebration. We appreciate your understanding.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Parking will be available on-site. However, we encourage carpooling when possible.
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?
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Guests are responsible for arranging their own transportation to the ceremony. Please note that public transportation in Raleigh is limited, so we highly recommend renting a car for those traveling from out of town.
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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?
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We look forward to a weekend filled with fun activities and hope many of our guests will join us in the celebrations leading up to the wedding. Additional details about these events will be shared soon.
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What airport should I fly into?
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The nearest airport is RDU.
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I noticed my family member wasn’t included in the invitation I received. Can you provide more details?
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Throughout our lives, we’ve been lucky to form so many meaningful and beautiful relationships. As much as we would love to celebrate our wedding day with everyone we care about, we’ve made the decision to have a small, intimate micro-wedding. Because of this, we’re unable to extend in-person invitations to all of our loved ones — and we hope you understand this was not an easy choice. Please know that this decision does not reflect how much we value or appreciate you. We understand that each family must make the choice that’s right for them when it comes to participating, and we’re grateful for your support in any form. To help include as many people as possible in this special moment, we’ll be sharing Zoom details soon so you can still celebrate with us from wherever you are. Whether you're joining us in person or virtually, we’re truly excited to share this meaningful day with all of our beloved family and friends.
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Can I Uber to the wedding?
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Unfortunately, no. The venue is pretty remote and most Uber drivers do not pick up rides in that area.
