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We are excited to have you celebrate our wedding with us!
We are excited to have you celebrate our wedding with us!

Bethany & Jamie

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Any Questions?

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We will provide update information for all of you to learn. Ask us questions if you have them.

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What is the Dress Code?

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We'd love to see our family and friends dressed up for our big day! Dress to impress in your best formal cocktail attire. Bright spring/summer-time colors are encouraged. :) Please no jeans/denim, sneakers, & avoid shades of black. White is encouraged for the event.

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Can I Bring a Guest/Date?

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Due to limited space, we can only accommodate those guests formally invited in your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding.

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Are Kids Allowed?

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Invitations will be specific and will include the names of the children who are invited. However, we encourage you to use this evening as a "night out" for yourself!

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Will there be an Open Bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us and the hangover is on you! Let's get ready to party!! There will be a beer/selzer/mix drinks & wine cooler bar! For this reason, we encourage you to uber/lyft to and from the venue. Please make sure you have a way to get home safely.

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Will the Wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be outdoors and the reception will be indoors.

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Where do I park?

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Our Venue has free on-site parking in the front and back of the venue. We encourage guests to uber/lift from the venues.

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Can I take Pictures during the Ceremony?

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We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographer to be able to capture the best pictures which we will share with you. Once the ceremony is over feel free to take as many pictures as you'd like and don't forget to share them with us!

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What do I do if I can't make it?

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You will be dearly missed!! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "not attending" so we can plan accordingly. Please note, that we will have a virtual viewing of the ceremony for people who can not make the wedding ceremony.

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What time should I arrive?

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A time for the ceremony will be given on your formal invite and we ask that you arrive and be in your seat NO LATER THAN 15 minutes before the ceremony starts. You may arrive earlier than 15 minutes and it will give you time to park, and find your seat. If you arrive after the ceremony has already started, we ask you to wait in the back of the ceremony.

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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?

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We kindly ask that you avoid the color black. We are a non-traditional couple and will be wearing black as our colors. Please note, you are welcome to wear white to the wedding.

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Can I share pictures of your big day or social media?

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We kindly ask that you do not share any photos on social media of the wedding until we have a chance to do so first. Please note, that give us 24 hours to post pictures to our social media.

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Can we help?

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We can use help as we are on a budget. All the help with be greatly appreciated and can be used.

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