We love your kids—we really do. But we want our reception to be your night off! If you see kids running around at the reception, they're somehow related to us.
Unfortunately, no. However, we'll be in the middle of Silicon Valley and encourage you to use a ridesharing service (Lyft or Uber) to and from the event.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.