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Shelby & Benjamin

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive at the ceremony early. We will start promptly at 4:30 PM. Our recommendation would be to arrive 20-30 min before.

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Is there a dress code?

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Semi Formal/Formal. Our theme is pastels and florals so please feel free to wear these colors, but not required. Our wedding is in July, and if weather permits the ceremony will be held outdoors, please keep this in mind. The reception will be held indoors in an airconditioned space. We kindly ask that you please do not wear white. Bridesmaids will be in light blue. Please not shorts.

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Can I bring a date?

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Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on the invitation.

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Are kids welcome?

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Kids who are invited will be included in your invitation.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Please see our hotel recommendations in the ribbon above titled "travel".

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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There are two venues on site where we are getting married. Please follow the parking attendants to the correct lot. Our venue is a black A-frame. In addition, there are several other wedding venues in the area, we recommend booking hotels sooner rather then later.

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Can I leave my car at the venue overnight?

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We want everyone to be safe and responsible. You are allowed to leave your car at the venue overnight, however it must be picked up by 9:00 AM Sunday morning. If your car is not picked up by this time, it will get towed. We will be providing a party bus back to the Stillwater area for bar hopping (leaving at 11:30 PM).

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Can I get an Uber/Lyft to and from the wedding?

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Please try to not rely on Uber/Lyft to and from the wedding. Though there are several in the Stillwater Area, it has been said to be difficult and unreliable to get one to the Somerset, WI area. If you do plan on using uber/lyft, we highly recommend scheduling them in advance. We will be running one shuttle to the venue, leaving at 3:30 PM from the Country Inn and Suites in Stillwater. If you are not staying at this hotel, please feel free to uber to the hotel if you plan on taking the shuttle to the wedding. I would not recommend parking your own car at the hotel since most require a pass. We will have one Party Bus leaving from the venue at 11:30 PM to Downtown Stillwater. We will plan on bar hopping afterwards. If you take the party bus but drove to the venue, be sure to set your alarms to pick up your car no later then 9 AM from the venue. If you want to take the party bus but don't want to bar hop, ubers are fairly easy to get in Stillwater.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is plenty of parking for the venue which is where both the ceremony and reception will take place.

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