Wedding Party
Sarah Little
Maid of Honor
Sarah is my older sister, best friend, and the mom of my 3 favorite humans (my nieces). While she may only be 18 months older than me, it has always felt like she had many more years on me in wisdom and confidence. Sarah has been with me through every season of life. Always praying for me and believing the best is yet to come. I remember a few years ago I was crying about being single at Sarah and Chris's kitchen table, like I always was, and she asked me lovingly "what are you doing about it". It changed my life, my eyes were opened that prince charming probably wouldn't just come knocking on my door some Friday night. So, I put myself out there the only way I knew how - the dating apps - lol, and soon after I met Bryan Joseph (swoon). She pushes me in ways I always need, she is always there for me, and has been the best role model I could have ever asked for. I'm so lucky to have her by my side on our wedding day, and all of my days .
Ryan Wekenman
Best Man
He’s my best friend—my bestest friend. Ryan’s been by my side since the day I chose to follow Jesus. He’s one of the wisest people I know and loves people so deeply and intentionally. We were roommates back in Seal Beach, CA, and again when we moved to Austin. And crazy enough—we’re roommates again right now. Through every season, especially the toughest ones, Ryan’s been someone I could lean on. He’s one of my biggest encouragers and constantly pours into me. Honestly, if Ryan hadn’t convinced me to move to Austin, there would be no Beej and Jenn… wild to think about. One of my favorite things about Ryan is when I crack a joke and he completely loses it—keels over laughing like it’s the funniest thing he’s ever heard. Moments like that are my favorite. Ryan means the world to me. I truly wouldn’t be where I am today without him. “There is no Ron without Harry,” and there’s no doubt that Ryan’s my best man. Thanks for always being in my corner. Love you always, Ry-Guy.
Ann Wenz
Bridesmaid
I could not imagine my wedding day without this woman I call MOM (maaam if you annunciate with our midwest accents). She has shaped me into the woman I am and is not only my mom but my friend. My dad calls us "sorority sisters" because we are always gabbing, about anything and everything. I swear she is the only person that can follow my rabbit trails...a gift. I love her with all of my heart and am so thankful for how she loves me. If I can grow to be half the woman, wife, and one day mom she is I will have done something right.
Matthew Marino
Groomsman
Matt isn’t just a friend—he’s a brother (not by blood, but it sure feels like it). When it comes to emotional maturity, this guy’s the gold standard. He always knows the right thing to say, carries a calm presence, and has a patience that’s honestly rare. Whether I’m sad, frustrated, angry—you name it—Matt’s the kind of friend who will sit with me in it, without rushing me out of it. He’s someone I can call or text anytime, and I know without a doubt he’ll show up. Always. Still wild to think this all started with you sliding into my DMs to play volleyball—ha! One of my favorite things about Matt is how deeply he seeks to understand me and how intentionally he pursues our friendship. There’s a reason why he’s a groomsman. Love you more, brother. hallelujah;
Charlotte Little
Bridesmaid
My tiny bff. The oldest of my nieces and the girl that made me an aunt. We call her Charlie and she is as sweet as they come. She cares deeply about the people she loves, has the best imagination, and we are always laughing together. Once you get to know her, she'll come out of her shell and hopefully dance the night away. She may not know exactly what being my bridesmaid means to me, but I hope over the years and as she grows she will understand just how much it meant to me to have her up there with me.
Danny Rebhan
Groomsman
Oh, Danny boy… why’d you have to leave Austin? I actually met Danny through Jackson (another one of my groomsman), but funny enough, we didn’t start getting close until after he moved to NYC. Since then, though, he’s become one of my absolute best friends. Danny is one of the most intelligent people I know—like, scary smart—but what makes him even more special is how empathetic he is. There’s rarely a day that goes by where we’re not on the phone or FaceTiming, catching up on life and shooting the shiz. Even from NYC, Michigan, or Italy, he’s always championed Jenn and me from afar. His support never wavers, no matter the distance. One of my favorite things about Danny is how grounded and logical he is, especially when my brain is spiraling in a million directions. He helps me see clearly when I can’t do it on my own. Danny, I’m so grateful to have you standing up there with Jenn and me. Love you, brother. GO BLUE!
Haven Little
Bridesmaid
Another tiny bff. The middle girl of my nieces. Haven and I share so much in common - our middle names, our sassy spirit, and our ability to care deeply and sometimes not at all. She is a girls girl all around, loves quality time, and is the best younger AND older sister to her sisters. I share the same sentiment that one day I hope she grows to know and understand how much having her as a bridesmaid means to me as I may be 25+ years older than her, but she has definitely helped shape me into who I am today.
Brett Leonard
Groomsman
Brett. Bubs. Brother. If it weren’t for our mutual friends at Kimley-Horn and our shared love for pickleball, we probably wouldn’t be best friends today—so shoutout to KH for that one. You’re the most recent addition to the crew, but easily the person I spend the most time with during the week (aside from jenn). Whether it’s pickleball, padel, or tennis, we’re always out there playing some kind of racquet sport. You’re one of the calmest, most level-headed people I know—I always joke that if I were ever in an emergency, you’d be the first person I’d call. And while you might come off introverted and reserved, your sense of humor is lowkey legendary. When you drop a one-liner, it kills—mostly because it’s so unexpected. When we’re not on the court, we’re usually on a mission to consume calories at some of Austin’s best food spots. Just like Matt, you’re slow to anger, quick to listen, and you pursue this brotherhood with intentionality and empathy. Your constant desire to understand and connect doesn’t go unnoticed—it reflects the kind of friend everyone deserves. My favorite thing about Brett is his uncanny ability to remain patient and calm, no matter what life throws at him. His steadiness brings a sense of peace to everyone around him. Everyone needs a Brett in their life. I’m so stoked to have you standing up there with me, celebrating Jenn and me on our big day. Love you, brother.
Rachel Crawford
Bridesmaid
Rachie is my cousin and one of my closest friends. Growing up I nicknamed her Razzle somewhere along the way and all of my cousins nicknamed me JLo. Rach is one of the most loyal and steadfast women I know. She is a prayer warrior and has covered the people she loves for as long as I can remember. A few years ago, early into dating Beej, I lived with Rachel, Jeff, and their boys for 6 months. It was one of the most generous (towards me) and fun seasons of my life. I got to process the newness of dating and building a life with someone while watching a family I loved do life together so well. Rach has shown me what it's like to be unashamed of the gospel and I look up to her so much. I'm so lucky she will be by my side on my big day. OH and I have to give Rachel all of the credit for introducing me to the amazing city that is Austin TX. Hook em babbyyyyy
Curtiss House
Groomsman
Curtiss—yes, that’s right, Curtiss with two S’s. He’s been my roommate for the past four-plus years, and it’s been an incredible journey sharing life together—both figuratively and literally. One of my very first friends in Austin, I met Curtiss during a game of beer pong at a mutual friend’s birthday party. Shoutout to Jackson (another groomsman) for that intro. Anyone who knows me knows I’m not a fan of surface-level conversations. So naturally, one of the first things I ever asked Curtiss was, “When was the last time you cried?” From that moment on, our friendship took off—from joining a Bible study together, to becoming roommates, and the rest is history. It’s been amazing walking through the same season of life with Curtiss—from bachelorhood to getting engaged to the loves of our lives just a month apart, and now planning our weddings. Living with one of your best friends teaches you so much, and I know this next chapter will only deepen our brotherhood. Curtiss, you’ve always been a great friend—full of generosity, empathy, and someone who truly cares for his people. You’re a constant, someone I can always turn to, and a brother Jenn and I know will be a part of our lives forever. My favorite thing about Curtiss is his huge emotions loving and empathizing for his people. I’m so grateful to have you standing beside us. Love you, dude.
Kelly Rojek
Bridesmaid
Kelly is my bff from my BHS/Barrington Bronco days. She is the most outgoing and friendliest human you will ever meet. We became friends from what seemed like out of nowhere and then have been inseparable ever since. Going through 15+ years of friendship with someone is wild - she introduced me to Dave Matthews Band, we did the high school announcements together (and cried laughing the whole way through - honestly laughed so much in high school people told us to shhhhh. LMAO), ate endless amounts of chipotle in our childhood basements, were neighbors downtown Chicago, and watched each other grow through career changes/city changes/and countless other life changes. Kelly has been a friend to me through every season of my adult-ish life and I'm beyond grateful. Her and BJ remind me so much of each other, the only two people I know that have 800 best friends that are actually their best friends. Couldn't be more thankful to be one of them. ILYSM LYLAS HAKAS.
Jackson Finch
Groomsman
Jackson was one of the very first friends I made when I moved to Austin and started my journey in the great state of Texas. We first met at a mutual friend’s birthday party—some chaotic volleyball shenanigans where the sand was basically a minefield of ant hills. Everyone was getting bit, so we bailed on the game. Jackson and I walked back to our cars and ended up having a great conversation. From there, we kept hanging out. I eventually invited him to Red Rocks Austin, and we started meeting up for coffee before church. Before long, weekly hangouts became our thing. One thing about Jackson: he’s wise beyond his years, always cheering on the people he cares about, and incredibly grounded. Not long after, we kicked off a Bible study with Curtiss, Steven, Collin, and a few others. That group has been going strong for five years now. We’ve grown so much closer through it all—life, faith, and just showing up for each other. I’m deeply thankful that the foundation of our friendship was built on God. Jackson’s faith is something I truly admire. It’s steady, authentic, and something I’ve learned a lot from over the years. But my favorite thing about Jackson? He’s always down to have a good time. He’s introduced me to some of my favorite people here in Austin, and I’m genuinely excited to watch our families grow up together. Couldn’t be more pumped to have you in my corner on mine and Jenn’s big day—and every day moving forward. Love you, brother!
Molly Marino
Bridesmaid
MOLLY MOLLY MOLLY. We may have met through our hubbies being bff's but our friendship deserves it's own story too. If you see Molly and I at the same social event, you will most likely find us in the corner gabbing away. One thing I have learned from Molly is to be slow to speak, yes from watching how she lives her life and also quite literally because she shared that with me as a friend. She is a well of wisdom and the goofiest of goofs with her random vocabulary. If you have the chance to hit up Little Deli with her, take it. Can't wait to keep celebrating life's milestones as they come girly.
David Witkop
Groomsman
David isn’t just my go-to CPA and finance guru—he’s become one of my favorite people. We’ve been in the same Bible study/life group for over four years now, and I’ve had the privilege of helping lead him alongside some other amazing guys. What’s funny is, I feel like I’ve learned just as much from David as he has from me. He’s wise beyond his years and has a deep, genuine understanding of Scripture that constantly sharpens me. He and his wife Melissa (who’s also one of Jenn’s bridesmaids!) have been steady supporters of Jenn and me through all the ups and downs. We’ve always felt nothing but love and encouragement from them. What’s made our brotherhood so rich is that David’s often been a season ahead in life, especially when it comes to relationships—and that perspective has been such a gift. One thing I’ve always respected about David is that he’s never been afraid to challenge me or speak truth into my life. That kind of boldness, especially when it comes from a place of love, is rare. Over time, I’ve realized he and I are wired pretty similarly—which is probably why we get along so well. What I appreciate most about David is his ability to lead with both empathy and logic. When I need advice, it’s comforting to know he’s someone who can hold both heart and head in the same space. David, you continue to show up for me—and I know we’re going to be in each other’s lives for the long haul. I’m so pumped to have you standing with me and Jenn on our big day. Love you, bro.
Melissa Witkop
Bridesmaid
Melissa and I became FAST friends, sending 5+ minute voice memos from basically the day we met. Her and I have been parallel-ish in our love stories, her and David being a step or two ahead of us, which has been so fun to go through every season together. We have bonded over our gift to gab, love of matcha, passion for Jesus, and walks around town lake. No matter what the day or season holds, Melissa is a friend that will make time and space to hear about it and challenge, champion, or encourage wherever you are at. Melissa has been such a champion of Beej and I and I could not imagine our big day without her by my side.
Steven Lanz
Groomsman
Our very own cheerleader—I mean, Texas A&M Yell Leader 😉. Steven is easily one of the loudest people I’ve ever met. You always know when he’s in the room... because you hear him before you see him. But louder than his voice is his love for his people. I honestly don’t even remember how we first met, but I do remember going to a Tito’s Vodka party and realizing this guy loved a good time as much as I did. I knew right then—we’d be friends for a long time. It wasn’t long before we started hanging out more and more, brought together by a shared love for God, people, and fun. I had my crew with Curtiss and Jackson, and Steven had his with Dan Moore. Both groups wanted to start a Bible study/life group, so I introduced everyone—and even though Curtiss and Jackson weren’t totally sold at first, we all said, “Eff it, let’s do it.” And the rest is history. Even though Austin lost Steven to the less superior city of Dallas, everyone in our friend group can feel the gap he left. The energy, the joy, the love—yeah, we miss that. My favorite thing about Steven is how he always meets people where they’re at and loves without condition. He brings people in, makes them feel seen, and never lets you forget you matter. Can’t wait to have you up there with us, cheering Jenn and me on—loudly, of course. Love you big time, Steve-o.
Christin Hume
Bridesmaid
Christin was one of my first friends in Austin. We had both committed to building the same church plant here in Austin and in a building full of people looking for community, we found each other! Christin has been one of the biggest champions of every dream, calling, and longing I've had. There were countless seasons I was sad about how I was still single, and she listened and prayed over me every single time, always reminding me and believe "he" was right around the corner. We have giggled and gabbed more than I could ever give words to. We have an ongoing joke that one day we will teepee her husband's home (that is her home as well), so watch out Chris. Christin has the most tender heart, will ask you the best questions, and believe in you more than you believe in yourself. If you didnt have her by your side on your wedding day, well, I'm sorry bc I'm so lucky to!
Collin Smith
Groomsman
Oh, Collin. I’m genuinely so thankful I went to that happy hour at Lazarus when J.Mo invited me to meet "some dude" moving to Austin from the Midwest. Little did I know, that night would be the beginning of a friendship I now deeply value. Collin’s always been a little more reserved compared to my loud, extroverted self—but over the years, I’ve watched him quietly step into confidence and grow into the man of God he was always meant to be. It’s been such a gift to witness that growth up close. What I’ve always appreciated about Collin is his consistency. No matter how much time passes between hangs, I know he’s just one call away. That kind of steadiness—especially in friendships—is rare, and something I don’t take for granted. There’s a quiet strength about Collin. He’s thoughtful, deeply grounded, and wise beyond his years. He doesn’t need the spotlight to lead well—he leads with presence, with integrity, and with a calm that brings peace to those around him. My favorite thing about Collin is that he’s dependable in a way that feels sacred. When he shows up, he really shows up—and that kind of loyalty is something I treasure. Collin, I’m so honored to have you standing beside me as Jenn and I say “I do.” Love you, brother.
Jenelle Cherek
Bridesmaid
There is lot Bryan Joseph has brought into my life, and this girl is one of them. Jenelle, Samarah, Ryan, and Beej have been bff's through California to Austin for 10+ years and that meant I was lucky enough to acquire them as well. Jenelle has pursued friendship with me over these 3ish years so intentionally. She calls me Chicago Jenn, as my most carefree side comes out when I'm around her. Jenelle recently wrote in my bday card "we are so different, but so similar" and that is so true and our friendship's superpower. We bring out the best and balance the rest. We are usually crying and laughing in every context and that is my favorite. You have championed BJ and I for as long as you've known us, together and separate, and we can't wait to have you up there on our special day.
Alec Alvarado
Groomsman
“SF, my neck.” 😂 Just one of the many hilarious moments Alec and I have shared over the last 10+ years of friendship. What makes our friendship special isn’t just the laughs, but the depth behind it. Alec is one of the most patient, empathetic, and quietly funny people I know—and one of the most Bible-versed too. We worked together in ministry (yes, I was technically his boss), and he showed up every day with a heart to serve. Ministry wasn’t just a job for him—it was a calling. Every time I’m back in California, Alec is one of the first people I text. We usually end up surfing—and by that, I mean he surfs while I try not to drown. 😂 But it’s always a reminder of how thankful I am for his friendship. One of my favorite things about Alec is how full of grace he is. He doesn’t judge—he just shows up, listens, and loves people well. That kind of friend is rare. It’s been amazing watching you grow in your career, become a husband and dad, and take a leap moving from Huntington Beach to Utah. Jenn and I are so thankful to have you in our lives—and even more thankful you’ll be standing with us on our wedding day. Love you, bro.
Samarah Larrain
Bridesmaid
MY FELLOW ENNEAGRAM 9. It has to be in all caps bc it's that important. We. Just. Get. Each. Other!!! The first time I met Samarah, she came out of nowhere and saved me from a conversation I just could not get out of. A homie since day 1. And she has not wavered since, she's always shown me she is in my corner, looking out for me, and covering me in prayer and encouragement. Sharing the same sentiment as I wrote in Jenelle's blurb, having a 10+ year friendship with BJ meant I received two best gal pals right away. It was an "i get to" mentality from the beginning, not forcing but very excited to grow closer and in doing so started a life group and pursued friendship and Jesus for the past 2 years. Samarah and I can usually be caught trying to finish a puzzle day or night (and btw we need to start a new one soon) or gabbing about our love for family. BJ and I are so honored to have you in our lives and to have you up there celebrating our forever.
Brian Walsh
Groomsman
My very first job was slinging shoes at Vans in a mall back in Orange County. Not long after, Brian got hired—and from that moment on, we hit it off. From sneaking him out of the house to hit up parties, to cruising in his classic Volkswagen bus, to doing life together for the past 21 years—Brian isn’t just a friend, he’s a brother. And I know we’ll be part of each other’s lives forever. Fun fact: In 2013, Brian and I traveled to 36 states (plus Toronto!) while working on the Vans Warped Tour. It was hands down one of the greatest experiences of my life. Living on a tour bus for three months definitely tested our friendship—but in the best way. It only made our bond stronger. Brian, we’ve been through so many seasons together—high school, college, life after college, and I’ve had the privilege of standing by you on your wedding day. They say friendships that last more than seven years are likely to last a lifetime—and you’ve been in my life longer than the time before I knew you. That says a lot. I can’t wait for us to be dancing, celebrating, and belting out every punk rock song at the reception. I love you, man, and I’m so honored to have you standing by my side as Jenn and I say "I do." Love you, dude!