Please plan to be seated inside the cathedral by 1:55PM to help avoid any delays. The ceremony will begin promptly at 2PM.
To allow all wedding guests, including parents, a night of relaxation and uninhibited revelry, we respectfully ask that no children attend the reception. The only children attending are those who are part of our wedding party.
Please check your invite for any +1 details! Please message us if you have any questions or concerns! Due to venue restrictions and final guest counts required for our vendors, extra guests cannot be added unless discussed beforehand.
If you are not renting a car for the weekend, Uber and Lyft are available for transportation to the wedding ceremony. For those who are staying at the Hampton Inn & Suites, there will be shuttle service available from the hotel to the reception at The Grand as well as shuttle service back to the hotel after the reception is over. Please meet outside the hotel at 4:30PM for the shuttle to The Grand.
Yes. We will miss you, but it is important for us to know how many guests are attending. Please RSVP "Not Attending,” so we can plan accordingly.
Formal or Black Tie Optional - The venue is called "The Grand," after all. No jeans or sneakers please. Women: Although an evening gown would definitely still be suitable, you could also opt for a mid-length gown, dressy top and long skirt, or even an elegant ankle-length jumpsuit. You’ll still want to complete the look with formal hair, makeup and accessories. Men: A dark suit jacket could be worn in place of an overly formal tuxedo jacket, although the overall look should still feel refined and sophisticated including dress shoes and a tie.
Ashley was born and raised in New Jersey and with New York City being so close, the Tri-State area holds a special place in Ashley and Bart's heart.