11:30 am - 1:00 pm
Semi-Formal: Suits for men (no need for tuxedos), formal dresses for women
Please arrive at 11:30 to find your seats, and listen to the choir that will be performing prelude music. The Mass starts right at 12:00, and any latecomers will be denied entry, flogged appropriately, and then corralled to the local bar for ample Irish coffee.
Sat, Jun 13, 2026, 5:00 pm - Sun, Jun 14, 2026, 2:00 am
Semi-Formal: Suits for men (no need for tuxedos), formal dresses for women
For most of us, we'll drive straight to Graves Mountain Lodge to park and check in at 4 pm (we're working with them to have an earlier check in, and will be in touch.) We'll have a shuttle to take everyone from Graves to the wedding venue 2 minutes away. At 5:00 pm, we'll start with cocktails and our red wine fountain outside, with ample garden games (cornhole, airsoft pistols) At 7:00 pm we'll transition to dinner in the barn with a vocalist setting the ambience. At 9:00 pm, we'll have our first dance, then dancing with the live salsa band until 1 am. Cigars will be enjoyed throughout, our barrel-aged Sazeracs, and Old-fashioneds will flow aplenty, and we'll dance the night away until the wee hours of the morning, at which point, our trusty shuttle will take everyone back to Graves Lodge. It'll be a night to remember!
11:30 am - 2:00 pm
Semi-casual: recommended to wear sundresses, floral prints, linen shorts, khakis, polos and the like.
We'll have a buffet of breakfast and lunch items: bacon, eggs, and omlette station, along with fried chicken and roast beef and potatoes. And mimosas upon request!
2:30 pm - 5:30 pm
Bathing suits and swimming trunks
Assuming we're not completely out of comission from the night before, We'll be going to the White Oak Canyon Trailhead, hike 1.4 miles (total elevation gain 417 feet, so mostly flat) to a beautiful pool 100 feet wide fed by a spectacular waterfall. If you have a park pass for Shenandoah, bring it, otherwise its a $10 charge for the day hike.