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July 4, 2026
Bar Harbor, ME

Ashlyn Rae & Matthew James

FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

We’d love for our guests to join us in wearing formal black attire. Think of it as a "blackout" wedding—but elegant! Men: Black suits or tuxedos are perfect. Feel free to wear white or colored shirts underneath. Women: Long black dresses or outfits are ideal. Subtle prints or small pops of color are absolutely fine! Please don’t stress—if you’re in the ballpark, you’re doing great. Your presence is what truly matters to us, and we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Can we bring our kids?

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While we absolutely adore your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration, with the exception of the children in our wedding party. We hope this gives you a chance to relax, enjoy a night out, and celebrate with us!

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How do we keep up to date with events?

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On the RSVP page you will provide your email address to receive updates. You also can follow our wedding Instagram!: @redwhiteandido where we will be posting updates before and while we are in Maine :)

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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We’re so excited to celebrate with our closest friends and family and due to space limitations, we’re only able to accommodate the people specifically named on the invitation. We truly hope you understand, and we’re so grateful you’ll be joining us to celebrate!

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What is the best way to get to Bar Harbor Maine?

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While we LOVE to make a road-trip out of our trips to Maine, we understand that wont be viable for everyone. If you are going to fly, Bangor International Airport will have the most options, but you can also look at Hancock County-Bar Harbor Airport which is closer but has less options.