FAQs
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When do I need to RSVP?
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We kindly ask that you RSVP by July 8, 2026. This ensures we have enough time to finalize our headcount and seating arrangements.
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Can I RSVP online or do I have to mail in an RSVP card?
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Online is preferred! We’ve set up a quick and easy RSVP form on our wedding website. If you run into any issues or prefer an alternative method, just let us know.
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Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?
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Yes, please feel free to bring your plus-one. We’d love to include everyone, but due to limited space, only invited guests and confirmed plus-ones are able to attend.
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What are the addresses of the wedding ceremony and reception venues? Are they wheelchair accessible?
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Our ceremony and reception will both take place at Thornewood Castle (8601 N Thorne Ln SW, Lakewood, WA 98498). The venue is fully wheelchair accessible and has plenty of room for everyone to celebrate comfortably.
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Is there parking available at or near the venue?
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Yes! On-site parking is available at Thornewood Castle for those who prefer to drive.
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Have you reserved any hotel room blocks?
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We've curated a discount just for you at the stunning Hotel Murano - a gorgeous boutique hotel nestled right in the heart of downtown Tacoma, just steps away from the city's best restaurants and museums. Please make sure to book your rooms ASAP as reservations fill up fast. We can't wait to celebrate with you!
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What’s the best airport to fly into?
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You can fly into Seattle-Tacoma International (SEA) airport.
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What’s the dress code for your wedding?
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Cocktail Attire Please wear polished attire suitable for an indoor-outdoor garden celebration. Portions of the venue include grass and garden pathways, so grass-friendly shoes are recommended. For Ladies Cocktail dresses, dressy midi or maxi dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or elegant separates are encouraged. Block heels, wedges, or comfortable dress shoes are recommended. For Men Suits or dress jackets with dress pants are encouraged. Ties are optional. Comfortable dress shoes are recommended.
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What is the overall wedding itinerary?
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4:00 PM - Guests arrive 4:30 PM - Ceremony begins 5:00 PM - Ceremony ends & Cocktail hour starts 6:15 PM - Dinner 7:30 PM - Mingle & Magic 9:00 PM - Event End
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please arrive by 4:00 PM. We’ll start the ceremony promptly at 4:30 PM.
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Will there be a gap between the ceremony and reception?
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No, we’re moving straight from the ceremony into the cocktail hour and then onto the reception.
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What time will the reception end? Is there an after-party?
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The reception ends at 9:00 PM.
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When will we eat during the reception?
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Dinner will be served buffet-style starting around 6:15 PM.
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Where will wedding updates be posted if anything changes last-minute?
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Check our wedding website for any announcements or updates, especially if the weather forecast changes or we finalize after-party details.
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What type of food will be served at your wedding?
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We’re still putting the finishing touches on our menu, but we promise it’ll be delicious and PNW themed! Stay tuned for final details as we get closer to the big day.
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Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions or allergies?
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Absolutely! We’ll have options to accommodate various dietary needs and allergies. Please let us know if you have specific requirements when you RSVP so we can plan accordingly.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! We’ll be serving beer, wine, and non-alcoholic beverages - cheers to celebrating in style!
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Where are you registered, and could you share a link to your registry?
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Thank you for thinking of us! Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. If you were thinking of giving a gift, to help us on our way, a gift of cash towards our home projects would really make our day as we build our first home together. Please send cash gifts to Gavin's Venmo - https://venmo.com/u/GavinLiu6 Last 4 digits of his phone number is 2798 just incase you need it.
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Where should we bring or send our wedding gift?
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You’re welcome to bring gifts directly to the venue on the day of the wedding.
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Where should I sit during the ceremony?
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Please note that the first and second rows are reserved for immediate family. Everyone else is free to sit wherever they’d like after those rows.
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How do I know where to sit for dinner?
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We’ll have assigned seating for dinner. You can find your table number on the signage near the reception entrance. If you need any assistance, just ask one of our ushers or staff members.