FAQs

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Is there a dress code? What should I wear?

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We are asking all guests to dress in formal or semi-formal attire for the wedding.

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Will the ceremony/reception be inside or outside and where are they taking place?

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Both the wedding ceremony and reception will be held inside the Washington Civic Center.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the ceremony, the bridal party and some immediate family members will be nearby taking pictures for around one hour. During this time, guests will be transitioned from the ceremony space to a cocktail hour space. Once the reception is to begin, guest will return to the flipped reception area.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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A hotel block has been secured at the Fairfield Inn and Suites in Washington, NC. Please review travel page for more information about booking and price.

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What should I do if I am unable to make it?

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You will certainly be missed! If you are unable to attend, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "No," so we can plan accordingly.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, we are only allowing children in the wedding party and those in the bride and groom’s immediate families to attend. If your child is invited, their name will be listed on the wedding invitation. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time, leaving the kids home, and choosing to celebrate with us.

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Can I bring a date? Do I get a plus 1?

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We have a strict guest list so that we stay on budget. The wedding will be strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your wedding invitation.

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When will I receive my invitation and when will I need to RSVP by.

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We will continue to update the answer here. At this time, you can expect formal invitations around August/September and RSVPs will need to be returned by October. It is important that we are a few months ahead, as we recognize our wedding falls right in the middle of the holiday season.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony is scheduled to begin at 3:30pm. Please plan to arrive at least 30 minutes prior to ensure we are able to start on time

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Will food and drinks be served during the cocktail hour and reception?

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Light hors d'oeuvres will be served during the cocktail hour. Dinner buffet will feature 2 meat options, with sides, and a salad. Tea, water, and lemonade will be available. We will be providing an open bar (beer, wine, champagne only).

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Can I take pictures and post on social media?

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We are requesting that we have an unplugged wedding ceremony and allow only the photographers to take pictures during this time. During cocktail hour and the reception, we highly encourage guest to take pictures and post on their social media using our hashtag #ToHaveAndToHorne. Be sure to tag us in your posts!