FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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Dress code it black tie optional. Feel free to break out your tux/gown, or rock your best suit/spring time dress!

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Do I get a plus one?

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If a plus one is not listed on your invitation, then we do not have a plus one planned for you at our wedding. With the limited space Thayer Hotel offers in their ballroom, we are sticking to a strict guest count to maximize the comfort of our guests.

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Where do I RSVP?

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Please RSVP directly on our website by clicking the "RSVP" tab on the top of the page and following the subsequent prompts.

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I didn't see a spot to pick my meal, where do I submit my selection?

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Meal orders will be taken at your seat at the start of the reception. Menus will be provided at your seat.

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What’s a welcome party? Where is it?

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The welcome party is for any guests who would like to come Friday opposed to Saturday, to get settled at the venue for the weekend. There will be some light bites and drinks available! The event will be in the hotel, specific room is tbd and will be updated here asap!

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Do we have to attend the welcome event?

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Absolutely not! We have a welcome event planned with light appetizers, beer, wine and seltzers for anyone who would like to arrive at the hotel Friday night opposed to Saturday, the day of the wedding.

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What is the attire for the welcome party?

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Anything from casual to semi-formal. If you want to wear jeans and a t-shirt, you are more than welcome to! If you’d rather wear a cocktail or midi dress with heels, that is also more than welcome! Just no sweatpants please!

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What drink options will there be?

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We will have all dark and light liquors, beer, wine, seltzers, and soft drinks available all night long.

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Will there be food and drinks provided at the after party?

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There will be light snacks at the after party with a cash bar available.

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I’m in the wedding party and don’t have any rehearsal info?

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Alyssa and Tyler will communicate with those invited to the rehearsal and dinner separately.