Parking and drop off location for the wedding is at The Ethical Society of St. Louis: 9001 Clayton Rd St. Louis, MO 63117 Please drive into the parking lot, behind the Ethical Society itself, all the way to the very back of the parking lot. There, you will see signs directing you down a short path through a wooded area to the backyard wedding!

Just a reminder that this is an outdoor wedding. Currently, the weather is predicted to be rainy on the day of the wedding. We have tents set up just for this possibility, but there is a bit of a walk from parking to the wedding, so please bring an umbrella just in case!

For all pics at the wedding, please tag #ToftMartinUniverse so we can find your fabulous photography!

Our favorite weddings to attend have been the ones where we got to contribute to making the day special. To us, weddings are the most personal when they are built with love by the friends and family of the couple. Our way of incorporating that feeling is to skip the cake baked by strangers, and instead do a pie potluck for dessert. Pies baked with love by those we love. Interested in participating? Just let us know when you RSVP. You can bring one pie or several. Just bring the pie when you arrive at the wedding, and we'll have a table all set up for them. Don't like baking? Then don't worry about it. We'll have enough dessert no matter what; we promise.

We know the trip St. Louis is a big ask that may not work with everyone's finances or schedules, and THAT'S OK! Know that we will absolutely feel that we were able to celebrate our marriage with you if you join us for our Chicago Wedding Party on December 5, 2018 at the Lincoln Loft. We are excited for the opportunity to spend an evening with our Chicago Comedy Family, so we scheduled this party for a Wednesday night to make it easier for our performing and touring friends to attend. More details to follow in the coming months.

We both do comedy. We both worked on cruise ships for The Second City. We both grew up in St. Louis. We have literally hundreds of mutual friends, but we met on the internet. Good ol' Ok Cupid. It's either fate or a sign of the end times.