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We are still finishing the details for our website but will have them updated soon!
We are still finishing the details for our website but will have them updated soon!
October 4, 2025
Windham, NY

Anneke & Harry

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Please see below responses to some of our frequently asked questions. If you have a question that is not answered on this page please reach out to one of us directly.
Question

Can I bring my children?

Answer

We love your little ones, and you might see a few kids at our wedding who are close family members and part of the day. That said, we're keeping the celebration mostly adults-only. We kindly ask that guests don’t bring children, except for newborns and toddlers between 1–2 years old, unless they are explicitly named on the invitation. If you need to bring your child, we ask that they are supervised by a babysitter during the event. If you need help finding local childcare, please reach out to us and we will do what we can to help. Thank you so much for your understanding and support. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

Question

Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

We have carefully selected who can bring a guest to our wedding in order to maximize how many loved ones we can have with us for the celebration. Therefore, please only bring a date if there is a guest listed on your invitation. For those with a plus one on their invitation, please let us know their name on your RSVP.

Question

Where will the wedding be?

Answer

The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all be outdoor (weather permitting) so we encourage guests to bring sunglasses and also a light jacket as the temperature can fluctuate. The after party will be held indoors. All events will be at Wylder Hotel Windham. Friday's welcome drinks will also be outside.

Question

What should I wear?

Answer

The dress code for the wedding is semi-formal; think dark suits and long dresses. We encourage guests to embrace the Autumn color palette and bring their own Fall flair. Check our this Pinterest board for inspo: https://pin.it/5ubMd7KKa

Question

When is the RSVP deadline?

Answer

Our formal invitations will be sent out in July. Once received, we kindly ask that all guests RSVP on our website by August 23, 2025.

Question

What time should I arrive for the wedding ceremony?

Answer

We ask you to please arrive at 4pm for a 4:30pm ceremony start.

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