Yes! What will make it private is that we will be doing it away from everyone out of earshot. Anna wants to do it with their feet in the water, Neil wants to do it down the beach out of the water. Feel free to attend to find out who gets their way!
No! Please come to the reception! The renewal of vows is mostly for us and we opened it to our loved ones because, well, we love you and want to share it with you. We also love the beach and hiking, which is why we decided to renew our vows on the beach and included a hike.