Here are some great options! https://thepearlinnbb.com/ (14 min from venue) https://adrifthospitality.com/ (various locations) https://www.atthehelmhotel.com/ (14 min from venue)
Cocktail or garden attire :) stilettos probably aren't a good idea as we will be on grass
The closest airports are Seattle and Portland, personally I would fly into Portland as it is closer, and there would be no opportunity for carpooling from Seattle.
I personally will not be able to give rides. However, it's possible that I may be able to find a carpool situation, I have some friends coming up from Portland. Nothing is guaranteed and it would be simplest to rent a car, but if you would be interested in a carpool, please contact me at 509-821-1654 and I'll see what I can do:)
Please arrive by 1:45 or earlier to provide time for parking and seating.
Friends and family of the bride please bring your questions to Sarah Wray 724-683-2477, and friends and family of the groom please bring your questions to Kelsey White 503-298-8153.