FAQs
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How do I RSVP?
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You can click on the RSVP tab above to RSVP at any time. We will include a paper RSVP with the invite if you prefer to mail your RSVP back to us!
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When should I RSVP by?
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We kindly ask that all RSVPs are made by September 1, 2027 to allow for appropriate head counts to be able to coordinate with our venue staff appropriately. If we do not receive an RSVP by this time, we will mark you as not coming.
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What should I do if I cannot make it?
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While we wish everyone could attend, we understand that life happens and you will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend the wedding, please indicate "Will NOT Attend" on your RSVP so that we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Attending", please reach out to Stacey and/or Caden as soon as possible.
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Can I bring a date/plus one?
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While we wish we could accommodate everyone, we have decided to keep our special day to our friends and family. We will only be able to accommodate those guests that are formally invited on your wedding invitation. Your invite will be made out to "(Your Name) & Guest" if a plus one has been given to you. Thank you for understanding!
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Are kids welcome?
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While we love the young ones in our family, we have decided to keep our ceremony and reception to an adults-only event with the exception of immediate family/children in the wedding. We strongly encourage you to use this as a fun date night! We greatly appreciate you making prior arrangements so that you can celebrate with us.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony will start promptly at 4:30pm; therefore we ask all guests to please arrive by 4:20pm at the latest. This will give enough time to allow you to park, sign the guest book, and find a seat. Guests are welcome to arrive to the venue as early as 4:00pm.
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Is there parking for the ceremony/reception?
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Yes! Our ceremony and reception are at the same location, The Allure on the Lake in Chesterton, IN. There is a parking lot on site to accommodate our guests.
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Will the ceremony and reception be held indoors?
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Yes, both will be held indoors. However, there is outdoor space on the patio to allow for some gorgeous outdoor photographs!
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Is there a dress code?
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We ask that you come in your best dressed formal attire.
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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
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We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the Bride: Whites, Ivories, Creams, Etc. Our bridal party will be wearing eucalyptus green dresses/accents, so while this color is not off-limits; please just be aware.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We are having an "Unplugged" ceremony - meaning no phones or cameras during the ceremony. You are welcome to take all the pictures you would like before the ceremony, during cocktail hour, and over the course of the reception. We have hired professional photographers to take photos for our special day, and we promise to share those with everyone when they become available.
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How can I contribute to the honeymoon fund or provide a gift?
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While the greatest gift we could ask for is your attendance, if you wish to contribute to the honeymoon fund or purchase a gift off of the registry; please see our Registry tab above.
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Am I able to bring a gift day of instead of contributing online?
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Of course! We understand not everyone is comfortable with online payments, so we will also have a card box and small gift table during the reception if you preferred to do something in person. If you would like to gift the bride and groom a check, we ask that you make all checks out to “Caden Cooper” or “Caden Cooper and Anastasia Barron” for ease of deposits.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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Yes! Please refer to our Travel tab above.
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?
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Yes we are working on arranging a shuttle from one of the hotels we are looking to block.